5 Major Reasons: Why People Fail In Life
Zohaib Khan
Group Assistant Finance Manager/CFA Level ll Passed/Digital Assets/Real Estate/Crypto/FinTech
Failures aren't really bad. It's ok to fail. But not learning the lessons from your mistakes is absurd. We should not deny the importance of failure as they pave our way to success.?
Why people fail in life? There are a number of reasons including they don't have enough courage to achieve success, they lack faith, they prefer to stay in their comfort zones, rather than take responsibility, they prefer to blame others, they lack consistency, and they give up easily and the list goes on.
Types of failures in life
There are several types of failures in life for instance,?
1.Common failures:
Our everyday failures like forgetting about an important meeting, sending the wrong file to the boss, etc.
2. Glorious failures:
When we give something all of our energy but get nothing in return.?
3. Abject failures:
When we lose something that is essential to us.?
4. Predicted failures?
When we are trying out something new and eager to find out whether it will work or not.?
5 Major Reasons: Why People Fail In Life
Now, let's have a look at the 5 major reasons why people fail in life.
1# They Don't Believe in Themselves
The reason why people fail in life is because of a lack of faith/ belief or having low self-esteem. They usually aren't aware of how much they are capable of and think low of themselves deep inside. That's why they end up failing again and again in life.?
It has to be noticed that those who overestimate their capabilities tend to try out new things more often. And by doing so, they either succeed or get experience because of their learning attitude from the mistakes that they have made along the way.?
I always fail no matter how hard I try? If this is the question that you often ponder then it is suggested to program your mind to hold positive beliefs about success. Your subconscious mind is much more powerful than you think it is.?
The way you think of yourself, your abilities, and the possibilities for your success greatly influence what you achieve.?
Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy.
— Norman Vincent Peale
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2# Lack of Persistence
The most common reason why people fail in life is that most of the time, they aren't persistent enough. They give up too soon even on those things which they are passionate about.?
When they don't get results as they expected, instead of figuring out what is going wrong and trying out new ways, they prefer to quit.?
This is also one of the main causes of failures in students as well as entrepreneurs. No matter how talented you are or have a vast knowledge about something, if you are lacking persistence, you will never be able to succeed in life.?
Remember great things never come easy in life. If you want to achieve your goals you have to struggle a lot and keep moving even when you don't see the light out of the tunnel. Sooner or later, you will find your destination and will be proud of yourself.?
3# They Don’t Take Responsibility
Most people find it tempting to blame others for what happens to them. Why is this happening to me? It wasn't my fault! And so on. Or you can say that they are having "an-excuse-for-everything" disorder.?
What to do when you fail in life? Stop making lame excuses or blaming others. Pretty simple, isn't it??
Learn to take responsibility for your life. Acknowledge that whatever happens to you is the consequence of your actions or the decisions that you have made.?
Undeniably, there are times when we really want to hold others accountable for what happens to us. But by putting aside fate for a moment, and thinking logically, you will realize that cursing others or God will not change things.?
To fix your problems in life, you have to take action and find their cause and ways to overcome them, instead of acting like a cry baby.?
4# They do not know the difference between hard work and smart work
People fail because they do not know the difference between hard work and smart work.
Hard work is all about doing what you need to do. Smart work is about doing things in the right way, and it requires thinking about the problem and finding a solution that works for everyone involved. The first step in this process is understanding what needs to be done, then thinking about how best to accomplish those tasks (smart).
“I don’t believe in luck or in hard work without the so called “work smart”. It’s not all about how you work hard but it’s about how you manage your time, resources, mind to work together for a better output.”
―?Jayson Zabate
5# They don't know how to adapt and change with time
Another reason people fail is that they don't know how to adapt and change with time. They are stuck in the same old ways of doing things, or even worse, they expect things to stay the same forever. You can’t do the same thing over and over again and expect different results; you have to learn something new every day if you want anything great out of life!
You cannot do the same thing over and over again and expect different results. You must learn how to adapt and change your actions, as well as your thinking, in order for you to succeed in life.
This can be done by learning from mistakes made during your past experiences or learning from those who have already succeeded at something before you even start out on yours (like reading books).
What do you think? Feel free to leave a comment as I look forward to your thoughts below and @Zohaibkhan.92.