40 RELATIONSHIPS PROBLEMS - How To Prevent Them?

Have Blissful Relationships And Make Your Home Into A PARADISE!!!

The topic of RELATIONSHIPS is of great importance because the real health of a society depends on how families function. Problems in RELATIONSHIPS lead to a higher prevalence of domestic violence and divorces, which results in a fragmented society with monumental problems. There is currently an escalating situation affecting all parts of society at all levels and at all ages. These problems are actually preventable.

40 Relationships Problems

1.Women are able to stand up as independent human beings sustaining themselves and others and demonstrating to the world their capability and potential. Some Men find it difficult to accept this change in roles in the home

2. Men and Women don't want partners who are needy and desperate for approval

3. Men and Women should not think their partners are mind readers. You have to talk to each other. Relationships flourish only where there is trust, love, understanding, acceptance, and forgiveness

4. The basic concept behind the marriage is that of 'togetherness and oneness'. Relationships should be taken as divine, sacred and a never-ending bond of life. 1 partner doesn’t believe in it

5. Expectation that the novelty should not wear off

6. Not communicating generally about their feelings, problems and their likes and dislikes. Economising on “THANK YOU” and “PLEASE” where necessary

7. With the hectic life of today, not setting aside a few hours a week that is especially meant for just the two of them

8. 1 partner is a control freak

9. 1 partner is not honest – lying

10. If not satisfied with each other, they have an ARGUMENT instead of a DISCUSSION. There is a big difference

11. Problems in satisfying the sexual needs of a partner

12. Lack of good hygiene in a partner

13. Not accepting that love and time is shared after the birth of a baby

14. During PMS, Pregnancy and Menopause hormonal changes are taking place in a woman and she can behave aggressively

15. Financial difficulties can cause frustration and arguments

16. Couple having more NEGATIVE interactions than POSITIVE interactions

17. Criticising the partner’s personality and behaviour at all times

18. One can sense real trouble when the husband and wife stop making joint decisions and the ego gets into the way in all decision-making processes

19.The situation gets serious and very bitter when one of the partners has an extra-marital affair

20. Caring for babies puts a strain on both partners

21. Interference from in-laws. Criticising the in-laws

22. Incompatible personalities, hobbies and interests

23. If the child happens to be ill, more often than not, or has kept the parents stay up most nights, the strain begins to appear in the marriage

24. Arguments about the upbringing of children

25. 1 partner suffers from uncontrollable anger and aggression

26. 1 partner is impatient at all times

27. 1 partner is very selfish – no “give and take”

28. 1 partner spending too much time outside the house

29. Gambling, alcoholism, smoking habit or drug addiction in 1 partner

30. 1 partner is a miser

31. 1 partner is extravagant

32. 1 partner is lazy

33. 1 partner is domineering and bossy

34. 1 partner is nagging and moaning

35. 1 partner is unreliable for time and promises

36. 1 partner cannot be trusted with anything

37. 1 partner praising the other partner’s friends or other individuals and belittling their own partner

38. Not showing understanding towards the partner’s difficulties at work or with daily chores

39. Belittling the partner in the presence of friends and relatives

40. Very little knowledge of the sanctity of marriage

Dr Amir Lakha M.B.Ch.B. MSc(EDIN) DPM(RCPLond & RCSEng)

Founder and Chairman, HUMANITARIAN AND CHARITABLE ONE TRUST (HACOT)

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