4 Hacks To Overcome Fear
DR. LANRE OLUSOLA (The Catalyst)
Transformational Leadership Coach | Harvard Certified Organizational Change Expert | Best-Selling Author | Global Catalyst | Board Member | Chairman, Life Coaches Association of Nigeria.
To Manifest on a QUANTUM SCALE you have to get rid of FEAR and live FEARLESSLY.
I want to share my top 4 hacks for overcoming fear.?
Fear is an unpleasant and uncomfortable feeling triggered by the perception or assumption of real or imagined danger.
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Fear often takes over our lives, gets to the best of us, and influences a lot of our decisions whether it is a fear of making the same mistakes from your past, or the fear of failure, or the fear of success, the fear of what people will say or the fear of the unknown or even the fear of fear itself.?
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“Everything you want is on the other side of fear.”
— Jack Canfield
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Even though we were born with only two innate fears: The fear of falling and the fear of loud sounds, we have all learnt and developed the fear of many things at different times in our lives. At the Quantum Manifestation Masterclass, I’ll explain how fear can be a major stumbling block that holds us back from being all we can be and truly successful.
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Fear shouldn’t be given the power to continue to hold you back, or stop you from creating the future of your dreams.?
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“Fear is only as deep as the mind allows.”
— Japanese Proverb
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“One of the greatest discoveries a man makes, one of his great surprises, is to find he can do what he was afraid he couldn’t do.”
— Henry Ford
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HERE ARE MY TOP 4 HACKS TO OVERCOMING FEAR:
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Hack #1. SEPARATE FACT (REALITY) FROM FICTION(ASSUMPTION)
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Be present in the moment and locate yourself in the moment and ask yourself the following questions….
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? What is really going on right now?
? Am I focused on the past, present or future right now?
? What do I have control over right now?
? Can I change the past?
? What can I learn from this past fact that will help me grow?
? Can I influence the future without making the right decision in this moment?
? What decision(s) must I make now to influence my future??
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Then act based on these facts and prioritise them over any assumptions.
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Hack #2. IDENTIFY YOUR FEAR TRIGGER(S)
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Be present in the moment and locate yourself in the moment and ask yourself the following questions….
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? Why am I really afraid?
? What exactly happened?
? What actually triggered the fear?
? What am I really afraid of?
? Am I really afraid of what I think I’m afraid of?
? So, what am I really afraid of?
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Be aware of what actually triggers your fear. Identify this trigger and learn how best to overcome it.
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Hack #3. KNOW WHERE THE FEAR IS SPECIFICALLY LOCATED IN YOUR BODY
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A lot of times, fear represents itself physiologically and takes over our bodies.?
It affects each of us in different ways emotionally, psychologically and physically.?
To overcome fear you must become aware of how fear affects you physiologically. This level of awareness in your physical body, helps you determine the intelligence required to do the work, and provides the care that your body needs.?
For Example: Even though fear is emotional and psychologically, it often represents itself physiologically.?
So, do you find that in the moment when you’re afraid, you grind your teeth, clench your fist, hold stress in your neck or back, and you feel very tense?
To overcome the physiological representation of the fear and therefore overcome the emotion of fear, reverse your physiology, stop grinding your teeth, free your jaw, free and flex your fingers, relax your neck and back muscles by adjusting your poise, do some stretches and focus on your breathing to stay calm and focus on a time you were on top of your game.
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“To overcome fear, here’s all you have to do: realize the fear is there, and do the action you fear anyway.”
— Peter McWilliams
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Understand that your mind and body are one and the same system, you can access and change your mind, through altering your body.
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Hack #4. PRACTICE GRATITUDE DAILY
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During difficult times, gratitude is more important than ever.?
Research shows that gratitude can help us cope with traumatic and fearful events, regulate negative emotions, improve our well-being and transform our lives.?
To benefit from the power of gratitude, just like everything else, you have to daily build your gratitude muscles through practice.?
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“Do the thing you fear to do and keep on doing it… that is the quickest and surest way ever yet discovered to conquer fear.”
— Dale Carnegie
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So, every night, develop the habit of journaling by committing to creating a gratitude list of at least 12 things you are thankful for in your life each day.?
Gratitude journaling is not about how big or small, gratitude is about simply being grateful for everything about your life.?
Gratitude helps shift your mind from negativity into positivity. Because fear dwells on the negative, gratitude overturns and overcomes fear.
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1 年This really lifted my spirit and my biggest take-home is to do what I fear the most. Thank you sir.