4 Conversations Every Caregiver Should Have with Their Loved One

People tend to avoid discussing issues that make them uncomfortable. While generally fine, this tendency can outright sabotage both caregivers and their loved ones. Often these deal with end-of-life issues, estate planning, or healthcare. Today's Caregiver lists several topics that you need to discuss with your loved one today.

1. Legal Issues

Has your loved one given anyone power of attorney? What about a healthcare proxy? Where does your loved one store financial and legal documents? You'll need to know who's who and what's where in case of an emergency. One quick note on powers of attorney: these documents are valid only while the grantor is alive. After the grantor dies, decisions will fall to the executor/executrix of their will.

2. Estate Plans

Speaking of which, who is the executor of your loved one's will? Does your loved one havea will--and if not, why not? You'll need to get everything in writing. While not strictly necessary, it might be a good idea to consult a lawyer who specializes in estate planning.

3. Living Situations

Would your loved one prefer to age in place (in their home) or relocate to an independent or assisted living community? Consider any renovations their home will need to accommodate mobility aides, along with general safety concerns. Look at the neighborhood: if your loved one is unable to drive, they will need public transportation (or a willing caregiver) to travel.

4. End of Life Plans

These are twofold: medical and funereal. Ask your loved one for their thoughts on living wills and extraordinary measures. What are their wishes in case they are incapacitated? Funerals are perhaps the touchiest subject of all, but this one conversation will give peace of mind to everyone involved. Ask your senior for specific preferences: for instance, cremation is quite common these days, but some people have religious, cultural, or personal objections to the practice.

Today's Caregiver offers more information and tips. Communication is important to any relationship, but crucial for caregivers and their charges. Lots of people assume that these topics can be discussed "later on," but now is later for your loved one. You need to hold these conversations while you can!

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