31 Ways to Find Happiness by Living Mindfully

31 Ways to Find Happiness by Living Mindfully

If you are finding life challenging now, you are not alone because everyone and everybody is suffering from something.

I used to be unhappy, empty and lonely but living mindfully helped me live life with ease and grace.

Yes, imagine being happy for no reason.

Yes, it is all possible.

MY BURNOUT TO BLISS JOURNEY

There are days I felt depleted, disappointed and demotivated despite my personal and professional success. I was suppressing every negative emotion because my logic tells me I have no right to be unhappy or empty.?

But suppression led to depression, burnout, and unexplainable sickness that inflicted my kids and negatively impacted my work and my relationship with my husband.

One day I woke up and decided to live life differently and mindfully.

I questioned everything including my own existence and started asking a lot of questions .....

  • Who am I?
  • Why am I here?
  • What am I meant to do?

It took time for me to find the answers but thankfully after 6 years, it is all clear.

I am here to share my burnout to bliss journey so others can find the blessing in their burden, the purpose in their pain, and the gift in their grief.


HOW LIVING MINDFULLY CAN HELP YOU FIND HAPPINESS

Living mindfully can help you find happiness now and always because for me, living mindfully means being aware, appreciative and active to take ownership of your happiness every second of every day.

When I took 100% responsibility for my own happiness, I stopped blaming others for my circumstances and I started taking action to become my own source of happiness and fulfillment.

If you want to become happier this March, I am looking forward to this Mindful March calendar from the Action For Happiness helping you find happiness by living mindfully every day.

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Happiness is a decision and a choice you and everyone else have a birthright to. Follow the simple and short exercises every day and I am sure that you will be happier.

If you want to understand more about mindful living, I look forward to seeing you every Saturday, 6pm Singapore (GMT+8) live on LinkedIn because I will talk about mind-body connection, mindful spending, mindful parenting and mindful eating.

WHAT HAPPINESS MEANS TO A 6-YEAR-OLD

This video from my eldest daughter when she was 6 years old about the meaning of happiness always brings a smile to my face because it keeps me reminded of what true happiness means.

I look forward to her thoughts reminding you that you can find happiness from your heart (not from anybody else) because it is your choice to be happy.


You can find happiness from your heart (not from anybody else) because it is your choice to be happy.
Sofia Gabrielle Tan-Calupig


This poem always saved me from my own drama and I hope it can also help you overcome demands and pressures of your day.


I feel fragmented
Like a broken pot of clay
I've lost my focus
I've lost my way.

I've poured myself out
I'm drained, I'm dry
I sense a discontent
I can't identify.

I feel rootless
Like a rolling tumbleweed.
Moving, moving
Dizzy from the speed.

I feel like quitting
I feel self-doubt
I'm tired Lord,
I'm worn out.

How can I integrate
My scattered thoughts,
My dreams?
How can I find balance,
Freedom from extremes.

How can I slow down?
How can I release?
There are so many pressures,
How can I find peace?

Quiet,
My child, be still.
Listen to your feelings.
Discipline your will.

Come to the garden,
The secret place we share.
My essence in the Garden,
Come to me in prayer.

Transcend worldly cares.
Seek the kingdom first.
Peace lies within;
It is for me you thirst.

Accept your limitations;
Embrace humility.
Here lies the path to wisdom
And to maturity.

Come to the Garden,
The soul's sweet bouquet.
The flowers of tomorrow
Are in the seeds of today.

TOGETHER we will weed.
TOGETHER we will sow.
TOGETHER we will water.
TOGETHER we will grow.

FINAL WORDS

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Roselle M.

VP-Banking; Author; Respects Human;#Girlpower&Mental Health Advocate; Top 2 Filipino in LinkedIn 2023; Top 8 Most Inspiring Filipino in LI 2023; Hall of Famer- Most Influential Filipina in LinkedIn Top 4,14,13 2020-2022

4 年

Wandalyn Tan Calupig love your article, sister!! Being consciously happy shows how powerful we are in charting the course of our lives... not based on externals but because of our inner peace and love within. ??

James Fragata

I help Gen Zs to have a career in financial industry without working experience

4 年

Love the gratitude calendar inside this article ??

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Edward Musiak

??Independent Advisor to CEOs, Sales, and Business Leaders | Five decades of Revenue Generation Experience in the Middle East and APAC

4 年

Great post Wandalyn Tan Calupig. A lot of great information here. I will apply much of it to my own life.

Kurly de Guzman, ICF PCC

LinkedIn Top Voice | Global Career & Leadership Coach | Helping leaders and coaches bring out the best in themselves and others, to thrive in their careers | Global Career Development Facilitator

4 年

Happiness is inside us -- very true indeed. Reminds me of the movie Trolls. Great list of 31 days of mindfulness you've found. Truly important to be fully present in every moment. Thanks for sharing, Wanda.

Ian Santos, CMC?

?? PH Top-Ranked Sales & Leadership Trainer, Influencer & Certified Management Consultant??Sales Director??The “Sales Sensei”??Top 10 Voices ?PH SALES 50 & PT30 Leaders Founder??I Help Build Great Sales Teams & Leaders??

4 年

Appreciate the share and mention Wandalyn! I have to say that mindfulness is absolutely key to maintaining one’s well-being especially during these times. We need to take care of what we feed our minds and how we manage our thoughts and mental processes in order to maintain our overall well-being ??

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