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Amit Dubey ????
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Does a person's mindset matter for success in life?
Let's deep dive into the beautiful story of Mr. To & Mr. Jo on mindset.
Once upon a time, there were two friends Mr. To & Mr. Jo from a middle-class background. They were born and brought up in the same environment, circumstance, and condition. Even their schooling and college also the same. Both of them began working at a very young age in order to provide for their families and to pay off bills incurred while attending college. Both Mr. To and Mr. Jo began part-time employment, Mr. To at a store showroom and Mr. Jo at a logistics firm. They bonded because they shared many traits and a common upbringing, and they developed into close friends. They started living in the same flat.
For instance, Mr. To, Mr. Jo, and other managers once met with the marketing manager of a significant global organization. The marketing manager grumbled that To's team wasn't performing well or acting in a way that would help them reach their objectives. Mr. To became so enraged and on the edge of fighting with his manager that all of his peers had to step in and ask Mr. To to cool off. Mr. To demonstrated to Mr. Jo how to be a wonderful leader and stand up for his group. Moe would never forget his leadership instruction from that day.
I wonder, but let's get back to Mr. Jo's respect for Mr. To. Mr. Jo secretly aspired to be as charismatic, astute, a great speaker, knowledgeable about everything, and as effective a leader as Mr. To.
Time passed quickly, and they had to part ways. Mr. Jo relocated to another major metropolis in order to accept a position offering higher pay and advancement potential. Mr. To remained in the same city, spent a few years working for the same company, and then changed jobs.
They met after five years, but this time the situation had changed drastically. Mr. Jo wedded the lovely woman he had fallen in love with. Mr. Jo works very hard and earns a fantastic salary + commissions. He had visited places like Australia, Singapore, Europe, the United States, and others. He was very happy to be led an easy life.
Mr. To, on the other hand, was having a hard time with himself. In the previous ten years, his income had hardly changed. He had a regular drinking habit. He would associate with local patrons (goons) who served as some of the local criminals' bodyguards. He had painfully broken from the love of his life. Due to his heavy drinking and increasing age, his mother is very concerned.
Mr. To was crying as he shared with Mr. Jo about the difficulties in his life. Mr. Jo had never witnessed him cry because Mr. To came across as a very mentally tough individual. Mr. To told Mr. Jo, "Brother, I am in a terrible situation," as he was sitting by the pond. I lack sufficient funds. Even though it has been a few years since I broke up with my love, I still find it difficult to face the truth.
Mr. Jo replied, “bro, I'll tell you the truth. Back then, you served as an example for me. I wished to be like you because you were so skilled at what you did”. "I will be honest about everything.?
The good news is that it's not too late to take charge of your life and get back on course even though you screwed up. What you require is better employment with better benefits and working conditions.
Yes, I concur with you entirely, brother," Mr. To replied. I have to alter it. I'd like to leave this depressing location, so please help me find work in your city.
"Great, send me your resume, and I'll take care of the rest," Mr. Jo retorted. If you are sufficiently committed, I may even hire you for my team.
Despite sending reminders, Mr. Jo has still not gotten the resume from Mr. To after three years. For the past eight years, Mr. Jo has raised his income by 200%. He has established inactive revenue streams. He now serves as an inspiration to thousands of individuals. He loves his family, travels the globe, and has a wonderful daughter.
Mr. To continues to lead an existence that hasn't changed much in a long time. He is still unmarried. has the same salary still. He continues to reside in the same compact flat. Doubtful of the people he associates with. Simply put, Mr. To is still an ordinary Mr. To.
In 2023, Mr. Jo By assisting millions of people in transforming their lives, Mr. Jo has achieved incredible success in his life. With millions of followers who value him as a mentor, he has solidified his reputation.
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Mr. Jo also runs an NGO that offers free assistance to underprivileged street sellers looking to expand their ventures using scalable models and creative concepts.
Mr. To and Mr. Jo are still close friends, but they are more like friends over the internet who are acquainted but not sufficiently so. I am so proud of you and your development, Mr. To occasionally writes to Mr. Jo in a message.
You must be questioning and evaluating Mr. Jo right now. Why does Mr. Jo not assist Mr. To in changing his life when he is changing the lives of so many others?
What do you think about it? What makes it not?
You cannot assist someone who is unwilling to help himself, according to this proverb.
What caused Mr. Jo to develop so much, while Mr. To stayed average, despite having exactly the same background and skills?
What one thing was lacking from Mr. To's life?
I can assure you that not everyone's story is like Mr. To's. Each and every individual on this planet has an average, Mr. To and Mr. Jo.
Both Mr. To and Mr. Jo are represented by a small voice in our subconscious. Mr. To is an example of a fixed mindset or middle-class mindset, whereas Mr. Jo has a millionaire mindset or a growth mindset.
A note of thanks to The MAD Community for this initiative.
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