3 Team Building Practices that Weaken a Sense of Belonging in Your Team
Natasha Kasimtseva, MS, PMP, CSM
PMO Thought Leader. Strategist. Speaker. Educator. Over 300,000 learners worldwide.
Human beings want to belong. We are innately collaborative and flourish when we feel connected to our teams and our company culture. A sense of belonging fuels trust and engagement, and an engaged team is an effective team! When we feel we belong, we contribute more, we communicate more openly, we are more likely to show vulnerabilities. All of these create a sense of a safe productive environment where new ideas can flourish.?
As a project leader, I’ve managed a variety of teams—large and small, with team members from different cultures, backgrounds, and (occasionally) time zones and countries! Being from Russia myself and working in the USA, I personally leave out the journey of diversity every day. When you bring together a team with diverse talents and backgrounds, cultivating the sense of belonging becomes even more imperative, because it does not exist organically.? It has to be cultivated with care.?
There is so much to be said about belonging and engagement. With the world reopening and team members going back to office, I want to talk about team building practices that might actually be deteriorating a sense of belonging for your team.?
I want to tell you very briefly about my own story with food. I was brought up by my grandparents who both grew up during WWII and the following years of recovery. They experienced famine, and it shaped their attitude towards food. I have a lot of friends and colleagues who have similar stories, growing up with heightened value and appreciation for food. To this day, I will not throw away bread, and I repurpose any leftovers so that they are not wasted.?
Solution: If you are looking to have some playful exercise with your team building something out of marshmallows or potato chips, I want you to take a pause. Does it have to be food? My recommendation is to still have the exercise, but use neutral materials that can be found around the office: pens, pencils, paper, glue, tape, etc. Can you imagine the tower that can be built with paper clips and sticky notes! How fun is that??
Solution: team building events are important, so is the timing. Consider having your team building event during work hours to include your team members with the commitments outside of work. Also, bonding over social games, interactions and activities are equally effective as bonding over a drink.?
There are several solutions to this situation:?When you put together a game of Trivia, it’s a good idea to ask your team what their interests are and include questions that would reflect the diversity of your team. In the case of a Christmas-themed game of Trivia, it’s a good idea to diversify it with questions about other winter holidays and traditions from the cultures and groups your team members identify with.?Use it as a learning opportunity: diversify your questions to give voice to different life experiences, interests, passions and cultural context. Teams learning about each other in a gamified way build common understanding, appreciation and uncover hidden assumptions.?
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A sense of belonging brings teams together, strengthens relationships and employee loyalty. It is such an important component of not only team but also personal success and happiness.?
What do you guys think? Do you have a sense of belonging and how do you nurture it in your team? Are there any team building activities that you enjoy that helped you create a sense of belonging? Please leave a comment below, I would love to hear from you!?
? Courses that I am watching this week - I made this course free for you with the links below:
Diversity, Inclusion, and Belonging by Pat Wadors - https://linkedin-learning.pxf.io/Gj0mV2?
Icebreakers for Teams, Meetings, and Groups by Dr. Daisy Lovelace and Dr. Carolyn Goerner - https://linkedin-learning.pxf.io/AoyWVR?
?My course - Managing Project Stakeholders - https://linkedin-learning.pxf.io/VybmeR?
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Great perspectives Natasha, thank you…straws and play-doh are my go-to option!!!