3 Steps to Having It All

To having your cake and eating it…

Living a life YOU wouldn’t trade for anything.

Myth: You can’t have fun, impact and freedom WITHOUT sacrificing your safety and security

Somehow the world has decided that you can’t have it all. Freedom, fun, impact, meaning, abundance - the life you REALLY want AS WELL AS safety and security - providing for your family.?

You have to choose one or the other because no one get’s to have their cake and eat it too right.

BUT here’s the truth.

YOU can have it all.

You can do what you want, when you want, where you want, how you want, and with whom you want.?

I mean, what’s the point of having your cake if YOU DON’T get to eat it?

Yes, it’s scary to potentially risk your safety and security - what you know, your comfort zone - because everything might come crashing down and you’ll be left with nothing.?

But let me ask you this…

What’s the point of safety and security if you’re not free? If you’re not happy? ?

What’s the point of life if you’re not living it the way you want?

Isn’t that settling??Accepting mediocrity??Accepting regret??

Isn’t that playing small? Living someone else’s life?

Here’s how YOU can have it all.?How you can stack the odds in your favour so the risk isn’t really a risk at all.

? Unlearn the Rules

The way you’re “supposed” to play the game. Conventional wisdom.?

You know the rules that say you’d be crazy to walk away from the well paid job that you don’t love to create what you want.

The rules that say you should be happy with what you have. That good enough is good enough.?

FORGET IT ALL.?

? Listen to your intuition and your heart.?

It’s telling you to discover what you’re capable of, to create exactly what you want - whatever that looks like to you.

Use that to inspire and guide the BIG 3rd step below.?

? Define what the life you want - the one you wouldn’t trade for anything - looks like.

Including your why, what, how and who.?In very simple but specific terms.

Discover your calling - what you can do (for others to help and serve them) unlike anyone else.

Everyone, and I mean every single person in the world, has a unique calling.

This is how the >1100 clients I’ve worked with have made the transition from safety and security (having cake) to safety and security AND fun, impact and freedom (having the cake AND eating the cake too).

Don’t listen to what the naysayers tell you. Don’t play small in your comfort zone. Don’t keep it safe and secure.

Start your quest to have it all?

And if you want a hand with that (I know that can be hard to admit) then my Skip the Rat Race workshop is a great place to start.?Check it out here .?It’s only a few days away.

Fraser