3 Skills you need to UNLEARN immediately to Succeed

Lets begin with a fact: We are all born geniuses. However, our schools along with elite members of society with some contributions of our parents insecurities push ourselves little away from our own selves. As a result, we are consistently battling ourselves inside outcome of which reflects in our behavior and attitude outside. However, I have another good news to share, that we can, no matter at what stage or age of life we are in, can change.

In this post, I will be sharing why we need to rubbish off 3 crucial skills that we have knowingly and unknowingly picked up during our growing years.

These skills not only are hammering our growth at work but are also contributing magnificently to down slide in our personal relations.

Skill #1: Art of complaining

I know its a beautiful feeling to put out a blame on some else for any mess up we do but if you really want to fly with colorful wings you need to stop this habit, IMMEDIATELY. This skill didn't helped you in the past, will not serve you any good in present and will destroy you in future. No one loves to hang around with someone who is always blaming his misfortunes on others and destiny.

You give so much ownership away when you go into complaint mode. Just think about it, who is more capable of solving a problem, someone who believes that he is in control or someone who believes that someone else is in control?

So dispose this super skill off ASAP, its just helping you create some unreal pictures of the surroundings around you.

Skill #2: Art of not valuing anyone else:

I understand we are super talented and super skilled but still there is always a room for us to learn something new. I have come across so many talented individuals who have been consumed by their own working titles. For example:

A manager feels insulted if he is advised by a subordinate or a senior feels shallow when corrected by his junior. Come on guys! These are not the things to worry about. These are things to embrace, blessed are you if you are working with team members who are equally or more qualified and talented than you this means collectively you can go farther than what you individually have thought for your own self, this is what we call is GROWTH

If you keep valuing yourself more than others possibilities are that you will keep silencing them which will result in two things.

1. People around you will leave you or
2. Will stop discussing things with you

Now calmly evaluate both these scenarios and when you get the answer that in both the cases its your loss, move on to the next point.

Skill #3: Art of treating everything personally:

?I know at things things can get nasty and personal attacks are made to harm your confidence but if you think they are happening to you on daily basis then its time for self assessment. Its time to realize that you have mastered the skill of victimization very well and now you need to really get rid of it.

You need to explain it to yourself that you don't have to win every battle you are in at times leaving the ground is far better than claiming it. Not everything is directed at you and you are not in discussion all the time.

I believe we are distracted when we don't have any clear aim of what we want to achieve or what we are striving for. We have finite numbers of hours on this planet so its imperative to leave this skill aside this very minute and start focusing on things that are of significant importance to us.

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