3 Simple rules In life Guaranteed to Lead you to Success and fulfillment.

How are you doing today? Okay, dude/chic how are you really doing? Are you living or simply making a living? Over 90% of people around you are ordinary, they are just okay. They are scared to answer the call to greatness. Are you on the weird few who break the laws of safety and breakthrough to living the best version possible or are you normal, having a normal job, normal spouse, normal kids, normal education and waiting for your normal death.

Fulfillment is a deeply felt sense that your life is full, whole, complete – that you have expanded to ‘fill up’ your potential. It is knowing that, if you died tomorrow, your life would have meant something, that it was going in the right direction, and you were joyfully making a difference.

Achievement without fulfillment leaves you empty and its a crowded majority space. its normal and its Painful. Normal is a world of fear, anxiety, competition because almost everyone else is normal. That is why I think you are crazy if you are looking for examples of who you are supposed to be in the people around you. I dare say, majority are almost always wrong, in fact if you want to know the right thing to do simply look at what majority are doing and go do the opposite.

"Don't waste your time trying to be normal." - Richard Brandson

Find yourself and when you find yourself, Be yourself because everyone else is taken and be true to that self. You’ll get more out of this life than 90% of the rest of the people in the world.

Finding yourself is my daily focus. I help my clients find themselves, their true authentic power. Their true north. My breakthrough as a deep coach is to help people find that switch within and turn it all the way up! I relentlessly search for the glimpse of genius within.

The hard truth is that, If you don't find yourself, you will sell crap, live a crappy life, experience crappy relationships, crappy emotions, attract a crappy job and basically eat crap. And when you die, no one will remember you because who wants to do that? Your life will suck even to your mother who gave birth to you.

in-spite of the fact that people think you are great, Awesome, and all that you wish you really are, you know the truth inside. You are empty, naked, afraid and wounded.

The real reason you are addicted to crap is that, you have deep wounds of trying to meat your need for CERTAINTY and SIGNIFICANCE by trying to PROVE to your competition that you are worthy and at the same time trying to PLEASE those 'above' you. Your two words are : PROVE & PLEASE. And you know whats funny about this; you think you are normal and that's the problem because its true, you are normal but deep inside you know you are not happy that way. The normal way to end this story is with the pain of regret. It doesn't have to end that way but i guarantee it will if you don't make a U-turn to what rally fulfills you.

We want what we can’t have. You are chasing what a moving shadow. You are yearning for what seems out of reach. Needy is creepy and enslaving. The opposite is powerfully freeing. In the opposite universe their is no more apologizing for who you are and what you stand for.

Wait until your job doesn't offer you much certainty like its doing right now, wait until your boss has a new favorite worker, wait until your juniors have a leverage on you because you are older and they are fresh and bringing more results. Wait until the day they fire you. Now for most people that's when the rubber meets the road! That's when majority wakes up and really seeks to answer the question; who am i? who am i without this job, position, title, who the _____ am I?

That is why i don't give a damn about your position, your money or your achievements until i know just how FULFILLED you are as a person. That is what I care most about. That is the reason I am a coach, I help people cut through the BS and really see the light of who they really really are. No one cares about how many people follow you on social media; majority of people just follow crap. Please stop doing things to please people. Know who you are and what sets your heart on fire and do it even if its for free, it will be worthwhile. Like, just be real, give yourself permission to fail.

Have some simple rules that keep you on your true north. I live my life by three very important rules to me: Live my truth, Love My Family, Live with Passion, Period! I am not doing anything to be liked by anyone, my heart is full. I know I love people but I don't need anyone to complete me. I have meaningful relationship with my wife and kids. I have given myself full permission to be raw and imperfect and in that space i get to create stuff that light me up and change people's lives.

I don't dig what i don't like, but what I like I dig hard! i go full swing on stuff i like for the sole reason that i like them. I speak openly and honestly. There are no walls to me but i have a strong allergy for crap. As i coach more people especially entrepreneurs, I see most of them forget about their core relationships and really don't have a work life balance. it is easy to bury ourselves in work and justify that we are in business growth period. By the way that period can be a life time.

Think about what really is your core business. i am sure it is not about your product that you will remember the most in the next 20years. Think long term when you are deciding what rules to live your life by.

If you really want to stay ahead of your competition, find time to find yourself. Know your DNA and flow in it. Dreams have no witnesses so stop looking around you for examples of how you want to live your life. its within! Design life for yourself, you won’t receive a second opportunity to do so, so you either do it now, or you regret it on later in life.

“Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice.” – Steve Jobs

“Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma – which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of other’s opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.” – Steve Jobs

The faster you will find a way to live your truth, love your family and live your passion, the faster all the crap and crappy relationships will fall by the wayside. I believe your true freedom lies in those 3 rules of life. Whether you are in Hr, management, leadership, an entrepreneur, or at the entry of your career of brand building. There are 3 rules that have produced amazing results to me and my clients:

Live your truth, Live with Passion, Love your Family!

Be authentic: A sense of authenticity is one of our deepest psychological needs, and people are more hungry for it than ever. Even so, being true to oneself is not for the faint of heart. 

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Live your truth, Live with Passion, Love your Family!