3 reasons NOT to hire me to find the right partner
Marco Villani
Dating & Relationship Coach | I help male professionals and entrepreneurs meet, attract and connect with the right partner while staying true to themselves
Maybe you would like to find the right partner for you and at some point, you thought of getting help.
On the other hand, you believe you can find this person on your own, and you keep wondering:
“Marco, is your mentoring really worth it?” ??
And my honest answer to you is... not always.
Specifically, these are the 3 circumstances where I do NOT recommend working with me to find the right partner:
?? You are not ambitious in your relationships.
My clients are driven in all areas of their lives.
And their relationships are no exception.
If you are okay with compromising on the person you will spend the rest of your life with, with ending up with someone that is “good enough”, with telling yourself you need to be “realistic” with your expectations…
… then working with me is not recommended.
I would end up pushing you to achieve goals that are simply not yours. ??
?? You believe in “quick fixes”.
Connecting with the woman you truly want to have in your life is not easy.
If you haven’t had a date for years and you think that all you need is to learn the perfect line or jump on the latest app, you will be disappointed.
If you want to connect with the right partner, you’ll need to work on your communication skills, your mindset, your first impression...
Sure, there are tons of strategies and skills that can skyrocket your progress. ??
But you'll still need to put in some work.
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?? You value your money more than your time.
If you have time to waste, working with me is more of a “nice to have”.
You can go out 7 times/week 5 hours a day.
After 20 iterations, you may also get your online profile right.
And at some point, you will start connecting with women you like.
Sure, you will face a lot of rejections and go through a lot of frustration.
But after some years of taking consistent action, (hopefully) you will improve.
The thing is, most of my clients have thriving careers and businesses.
They have goals they want to achieve and they cannot afford to invest this gigantic amount of time in figuring things out by themselves. ?
They are also not in their early 20s anymore, and the idea of waiting another 5-10 years to find the right person is not very appealing. ??
That’s why they prefer to invest in a mentor who can cut their learning curve and bring them exactly where they want to be in record time.
I hope I gave you some clarity to figure out if working with me is worth it or not in your specific situation.
And if you want to learn more about how exactly I help my clients go on dates and find the right partner, feel free to connect and send me a message. ??
Take care.
Marco