3 Easy Steps To Rockstar Confidence

Few people are as confident as they would like to be. Yet self-confidence is very important because it shows up in everything we do.

The Good News Is, The Way You Think Of Yourself Is Only A Premise.

It’s simply an idea in your mind that you’ve built your entire personality on. And you can change that idea any time you want.

Thinking Does Make It So

Our thoughts become our actions, the subconscious mind makes no distinction between what’s real and what is imagined. It works with the material we feed it through our thoughts. It readily translates any thought into reality—whether it’s driven by fear or courage.

In other words, you are what you think you are. When you think you’re important as a Rockstar, others will follow suit thinking you are as well. Because of how you think and see yourself determines how you act and show up. And how you act determines how others react to you.

If you want to gain confidence, start to feed your mind—through autosuggestion—a steady diet of thoughts of confidence and courage. Imagine yourself on stage with others watching you, holding on to your every word, your every movement. No matter what you say or do, you can do no wrong in their eyes.

And while you’re doing that start to…

Be It Before You Do It

One of the first questions you must ask yourself is, how do you want to be seen? Would you like to be seen at your best? When you speak, would you like to speak your best?

Like it or not, your appearance “talks.” Be sure it says positive things about you. Never leave home without feeling certain you look like the kind of person you want to be. Starting your day with a healthy dose of meditating or setting your intentions is the start to an amazing day.

And, if you want to convey confidence, you can’t display a “broken body.” Unfortunately, in our society, it’s common to see people with bodies that turn inward or downward.

Do you see Rockstars mopping around on stage? No, their bodies are in motion to keep you entertained and energized.

Your spine should reach up and so should your head. You must always be conscious of aspiring upward. That’s true even when you sit down. If you let your whole body sink down when you sit, you’re revealing a lack of confidence.

The same is true for your voice. To be confident, you can’t have a voice that mumbles. Speak up and speak clearly. Say every word as you are saying into a microphone. Let yourself be heard.

When you start looking and acting like the person you want to become, your new attitude will not only talk to you, it will talk to others. As you begin acting differently, you will quickly earn more respect and attention from everyone around you.

Experience Builds Confidence

Eleanor Roosevelt said ...

“You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You must do the thing you think you cannot do.”

... this is advice I can stand by.

A lack of confidence is surmounted by taking action. Think about the times in your life when you did something that was in an area you’d never been in before. You weren’t confident you could do it at first, but the more you did it, the more confident you became.

So as you’re thinking and acting like the person you want to become, remember that you can’t build confidence solely by sitting around thinking good thoughts, wishing for the life you deserve. You have to take action. As soon as you do, the fear on the inside will begin to dissipate and your confidence WILL rise. You will be on your way to the stage and having Rockstar status.

Rock On!