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What is the most serious disease that human’s could be afflicted with?

 Cancer

AIDS

Hepatitis

 The Answer is a None of these.

 All of us in some measure are Judgmental. We get blown away by it at some point of time or other

 The greatest mental affliction that could probably erode the quality of our life.

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 What is the terrifying variation of this disease?

 To hold on steadfastly to this judgment for the rest of our lives.

 How do we form our judgment?

 Is it based on a single interaction in a single setting or is it based on multiple interactions in multiple settings. Do we tend to extrapolate that judgment and make broad and sweeping generalizations.

 Is it possible that you get judged the same way you judge others?

 How perfect are you?

Are you pleasant, courteous and polite at all times. Don’t you cut loose and mouth a few expletives? Have you not jumped a red light? Hurt somebody? Don’t you involuntarily respond in a nasty manner once in a while? Fret and Fume making Apples to Oranges comparison? Take on a verbal duel just for the heck of it?  And hell yes, feel sorry and wished that you  not responded that way.

Why not give the benefit of doubt to the other poor fellow traveller, who is just as imperfect as you,  born with manufacturing defects and by product of upbringing and the environment that we all live in.  Can you empathize with how much of unlearning he has to do to  become perfect. Maybe a lifetime, maybe not.

To shrink or not to shrink, that is the question. What can Acceptance in  an AS is mode lead you to?

A neutral unbiased mind can ensure Transactional effectiveness.

In an ambiguous world, which is not black and white, where the concept of truth and fairness keep mutating, a mind free of biases, can become your biggest strength.

On a parting note, I quote Sri Sarada Devi – The Holy mother, “If you want peace, do not find fault with others”