2023: A Year of Unveiling Bonds, Triumphs, Healing & Community

As the curtain gracefully descends on the transformative journey of 2023, the tapestry of experiences unfurls with threads of personal triumphs, profound connections, and some of the historic community milestones. So many memories to cherish when the year is well lived with friends, family and loved ones. Here is my top 10 List, in no particular order.?

1. Pilgrimage to Hrishikesh:The sacred banks of Hrishikesh set the stage for a soulful journey, where the whispers of the Ganges intertwined with my own self-discovery. Attending the International Yoga Festival established the foundation for a year marked by profound personal and spiritual growth. By some miracle, I found myself in the presence of transformative leaders attending the International Yoga Festival. It was a moment of cosmic alignment, standing before luminaries whose teachings would shape and enrich my spiritual path.

2. Taking a Dip in the Ganges (Haridwar) :As part of my journey of grieving and seeking closure for my father's demise, I undertook a symbolic act of healing by taking a dip in the holy Ganges at Haridwar. The sacred waters held the power to cleanse not only the body but also the soul, offering a profound sense of closure and peace. This ritual allowed me to bid farewell to the past and embrace the present.

3. Yoga Certifications and Evolution: Becoming certified in Kid's Yoga and Trauma-Informed Yoga marked more than a professional milestone; it symbolized a commitment to holistic well-being. As I work toward a 500-hour certification, each training module becomes a stepping stone toward the journey of consciousness. Teaching a group of >100 people in a single session in person was a high point and an experience I can not describe in words. The yoga mat ceased to be a mere physical space; it evolved into a bridge connecting races and generations. Guiding vibrant youngsters to wise souls of 80 years old, each class became a sacred ground for shared experiences, laughter, and profound connections, creating a harmonious blend of energy.

4. Kathak: Performances, Exam, and Cultural Expression: On multiple stages, the rhythmic tales of Kathak came to life, transforming each performance into a celebration of culture, diversity, inclusivity, self-expression, and connection with communities. The dance was my cathartic release, allowing me to overcome the grief of losing my father exactly a year ago. Despite the loss, I summoned the strength to participate in the exam, feeling his presence with me, a comforting force that fueled my determination.

5. Developing Family Bonds: In the whirlwind of achievements, the foundation of the family remained steadfast. Securing a visa for my mother was not merely paperwork; it unlocked the gates to fostering a deep bond. Moments of knitting, cooking, praying, and reading became the threads weaving three generations together. The kitchen transformed into a hub of shared stories, prayers echoed with shared reflections. The warmth extended beyond immediate family, as my niece visited, transforming my home into hers, deepening our connection, and making every visit a celebration of familial love. We also adopted Bobby, and I have no idea how we lived so long without him. Bobby was welcomed by neighbors and is one smart, handsome kitty.?

6. Founding the South Asian Community: Founding the South Asian community in Metuchen was a historic moment, which is now 200+ members strong. Leading the celebration of the first-ever South Asian Heritage Month, attended by 300+ people, became a testament to unity, diversity, and the strength of communal bonds. The echoes of this celebration will resonate for years to come, creating a legacy of inclusivity and cultural pride.

7. Metuchen Music Program Board Member: An additional feather in the cap of 2023 was the humbling experience of serving as the Metuchen Music Program (MMEDO) Board Member. Being involved in the music program was a gratifying and humbling experience. The role allowed me to contribute to the Metuchen School's music program and get to know the community. The connections forged within this role have been deeply meaningful, and I am eager to continue being an integral part of this journey.

8. Sunskriti LLC: This year marked the birth of Sunskriti LLC, a venture close to my heart dedicated to teaching kids about Hindi and our rich culture. From vibrant Diwali painting to the art of crafting diyas, the celebration of tradition and creativity. The students not only delved into the beauty of the language, chanting shlokas but also started interest in movies, music, and the enchanting world of stories and poetry. Sunskriti became more than an educational endeavor; it became a playground where the roots of heritage were explored with joy.

9. Personal Healing and Commitment to Well-being: Amidst the external triumphs, 2023 also marked a significant chapter in my journey of healing. Acknowledging the impact of PTSD, I embarked on a path of recovery through therapy, and today, I stand on the brink of almost full recovery. I've come to understand that healing is not an isolated event but an integral part of a lifestyle. With a steadfast commitment, I empower myself to be a resilient parent, a supportive friend, an effective boss, and an engaged community member. This commitment extends beyond the self; it becomes a beacon of hope and inspiration for those on similar paths of healing.

10. Speaking on C-Level Forums for Cyber Security Programs: Addressing C-level forums for Cyber Security was not just a professional feat; it marked a significant milestone in the realm of cyber careers. I was lucky enough to receive some of the most challenging projects to solve problems that were unique and pushed me to new learning experiences for myself and my team. Outside the work, I also developed content to educate middle-school students about cybersecurity. Becoming an Associate Director and Brand in Cyber Security in the industry showcased not only professional empowerment but also a commitment to leadership in an ever-evolving digital landscape.?

In bidding farewell to 2023, gratitude fills my heart.

I did not do this alone.

Gratitude for the lessons, joys, and connections forged throughout the year. Grateful for the deep bonds, the joy of guiding yoga students, the significant strides in my cyber career, the transformative experience in Hrishikesh, the cathartic power of Kathak, the historic milestones within the South Asian community, and the enriching experience as the MMEDO Secretary.

May 2024 bring new stories, growth, and a continued celebration of life's rich tapestry and I wish to bring you all with me.