2017 - expectations: "Thodi se lift kara de."

When the new year comes every year there is a growing expectations by all from the year, self and also from other fellow beings in personal and professional lives. The count down starts by say 15th December and spreads right up to January or say February of each year. It is a human tendency to look for change naturally. Yes,the new year brings a new spirit.zeal or aspirations around the world.

Expectations comes from the new year to all. Similarly the expectations are expected to the year also to make and enter into History books as a special year in contrast to earlier years.

Each one has self expectation, also from other fellow members in personal and professional lives.In fact expectations are increasing in fast digital world year after year. Therefore happiness is always in wishes and expectations a rare commodity making life a complex one. People are striving on large hopes, seeking miracles outside all the time.

I am a die hard fan of the famous number of Adnan sami's " Mujkho bhi To lift kara de--Thodi se to lift kara de.

He is comparing others and beg to the lord to lift him a bit and seek series of expectations.It is an inspiring song and the world liked it the most and the rest is history and a famous singer was born. In this song Adnan sami pleads the God that why not him the all worldly things like gold, rain of Notes, dollars, pounds ,vehicles and what not. yes ,true lifting is essential in life to get going.

However what is the use of just expecting any thing without deserving and working for it. Every one wants a huge list of expectations from mainly others, could be family members, fellow worker, bosses. It goes endless and ever rising one.

The other side of expectations is really sorry state of affairs. It is said that" Hurt, Pain and hatred are sum of one word i.e expectations which is root cause of all heartaches(William Shakespeare).

Therefore it is better to keep expectations higher on achievements and low on people

Expect more from yourself than from others. In reality it is observed other way round.The secret of happiness is low expectation is known to all. However there is a growing tendency to expect from others and invite disappointment, unhappiness depression etc.It is better to be in hope than ever and endless expecting. It is rightly said the love does not hurt but the expectations from love at times hurt badly. Let us not blame "love" in this world.

In the words of Sri Chinmay "Peace begins when expectations end". A note to "Self "to stop expecting" if not going slow on expectations. It is easy said than done. We have no option to find happiness elsewhere except within self.

In conclusion let us settle down to expect only from self by accepting the reality and striving hard to push "Self " and make a difference. The way we love selfie we should love and accept self as is where is to make a difference and just be You and expect only from you and exceed expectations and compare with your earlier milestones and march ahead and feel better and make 2017 a better place to live in.

Good luck to all.

Thanks for your time and no tempted expectations. Be You, just you in 2017. Stay blessed.