How to Handle an Angry Client

How to Handle an Angry Client

How to Handle an Angry Client
by Tom Hopkins

Too many people, when faced with clients who range from dissatisfied to downright angry, choose the loser’s path by trying to avoid the situation. Worse yet, they handle it inappropriately.

Postponement doesn’t make the problem go away. It results in one of two things.

  1. the angry client decides the problem isn’t worth the aggravation and cools down.
  2. the client gets so angry that the next time you hear from him or her is through some sort of official (and possibly legal) contact. Worse yet, you could see your company named on the local news channel in one of those consumer protection segments.

If you’re a business owner, you may think it’s okay to lose one client who’s unhappy, but it’s not. You see when we have a good experience with a company, we tend to tell 3 other people about it. Positive word-of-mouth is great for business. However, someone who is displeased with a situation tells, on average, 11 people about it.

Naturally, no one wants to walk into a lion’s den and face the angry client. However, you must consider the value of this client to you, your reputation, and the company. In most cases, I would guess that it will be worth your while to face that angry customer and get the situation resolved as quickly as possible.

Here are nine steps I’ve developed for facing and dispelling another person’s anger. They work well in most situations mainly because you’re giving the client the attention their dissatisfaction deserves.

1. Acknowledge the other person’s anger quickly. Nothing adds more fuel to a fire than having his or her anger ignored or belittled. The faster you verbally recognize their anger, the better.

2. Make it plain that you’re concerned. Tell them you realize just how angry they are. Let them know that you are taking the situation seriously. Make notes of every possible detail they give you.

3. Don’t hurry them. Be patient. Let them get it all out. Never try to interrupt or shut them up. In many cases, the best move is to simply listen. They’ll wind themselves down eventually. In some cases, they’ll realize they blew the situation out of proportion and feel foolish for it. They are then likely to accept nearly any solution you offer.

4. Keep calm. Most angry people say things they don’t really mean. Learn to let those things pass and take them up after you’ve solved the present challenge — only if you feel it’s necessary to do so.

5. Ask questions. Your aim is to discover the specific things that you can do to correct the problem. Try to get specific information about the difficulties the problem has caused, rather than a general venting of hot air.

6. Get them talking about solutions. This is where you will learn just how reasonable this client is. By the time you get to this step, their anger should have cooled enough to discuss the challenge rationally. If it hasn’t tell them you want to schedule a later meeting, even if it’s in an hour, to come up with some reasonable solutions. Let them do the rest of their fuming on their time.

7. Agree on a solution. After you know exactly what the challenge is, you’re in a position to look for some kind of action that will relieve the challenge. Propose something specific. Start with whatever will bring them the best and quickest relief. Don’t get into a controversy over pennies at this time.

8. Agree on a schedule. Once you’ve agreed on a solution, set up a schedule for its accomplishment. Agree to a realistic time frame that you know you can handle. The biggest mistake you can make is to agree to something that cannot be done. If you do, you’d better be ready to face another bout of this person’s anger when you don’t come through.

9. Meet your schedule. Give this schedule top priority. You’ve talked yourself into a second chance with this client, so make sure you don’t blow it.

Once you’ve satisfied the client with regard to this situation, you will have earned another opportunity to serve their needs in the future…and the needs of those they’ll tell about how well you handled it.

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10 年

We prefer "I apologize" vs I'm sorry is when you step on someones toes.!! Just saying..

I have learned over the years that issues like this offer a small window of opportunity. They never last very long. Either the problem is resolved, or the customer goes away. Attack the challenge head on!

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Larry J Clark

Director of Operations at Used Modulars Canada / Business Course Creator

11 年

I might add as well that you never blame a client for anything. Even if it is the clients mistake, take the responsibility yourself and let them know you obviously failed in communicating the terms of the agreement/product/service and that you would like the opportunity to sit down with them again and resolve their concerns.

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