People Are Not Pawns
Bradford Shellhammer
Chief Marketing & Product Officer @ Rent The Runway. Ex Etsy, eBay, Backcountry. Founded Fab.com, Bezar, Queerty. Visionary Product Leader. Covers band singer.
"I am tired of being a pawn."
I remember the conversation clearly. The woman who stated it was someone who worked for me and someone I learned so much from during our time together, which is what every manager should expect from their direct reports. I expect, and try, to learn more from the people working for me than I could ever teach them. Never the other way around.
When she said those words to me I immediately defended my actions, one of quick-thought, moving too fast, and career-altering shuffling. I remember saying, and thinking, at the time that this was just part of the job. Deal with it. This comes with the territory. That employees are, to some extent, pawns for their managers to move up and down the chess board. I may have even made a failed reference to a sports team.
I was the captain. She was the player. I controlled the strategy and the movement.
And, yes, that’s true. As a leader we do need to move our team around and shuffle and hire and sometimes even fire to produce results. To move forward.
However, thinking of your team members as pawns, which at the time I indeed was, is bound to fail. The 8 pawns a chess player controls, moves, are all the same. They’re identical. No human being is the same. And moving people in abrupt ways to different cities, roles, teams, floors, even desks, can and will be traumatic. Movement, I think, needs to be calculated and thoughtful. Not hurried and rushed.
Thinking of your employees as pieces of a game to manipulate and maneuver how you see fit will backfire.
It’s only when we look at our employees as living, breathing, emotional creatures that a clearer picture emerges. We must set up people for success. The only way to do that is to invest time and energy into understanding not only what they can endure and what they are capable of, but also what they feel and how they feel. This is critical in the equation of success. We’re not the same. We all cannot do the same jobs, or at least not with the same results. And we will only succeed as a leader if we can build roles and responsibilities around the talents of the people we trust, rather than trying to fit people’s square peg personality and passions into a round hole.
Emotional motivation. Investing in being present with the people who work for you. Understanding their motivations within your walls and once they leave them. Taking time and being careful with decisions of movement and upheaval. Listening. Befriending. Connecting. Slowing down.
These are the movements the chess player, the captain, the manager should make with people.
Pawns and robots require otherwise.
Bachelors Degree, Volunteering and Networking
10 年I think this is great and so true. I would like to forward it to so many previous employers. Even a person close to me recently said, "We are only a commodity. We have no value to The Company. Behind you are three more people waiting to take your job". I don't want to think in those terms, it is cold and harsh. But is it true? A lesson for The Masses.
Head of school at GHPS t ng
11 年playing power games with employees stunts and stalls proactivity . Quoting ex president DrAbdul Kalam leaders should Duplicate themselves and create leaders
Entrepreneur / Advisor / Mentor
11 年A truth said clearly and straight on the face, which.....which , for some reason every one is aware of, but hardly few practice .... Treat People as people and not as machines....
CEO at Lamoz Fashions
11 年Gaining respect and trust from your employees comes with what you have invested in gaining that respect. Indeed human beings will never be pawns..the best employee, one knows, is the one who is instigating his co-workers to make deals while you are away. You get reports, then you catch him red handed. The law says dismiss such immediately yet you have invested so much in this individual, training etc.. apart from this breach of trust, which is very serious, all along he has been showing all the professionalism in his job. Your whole brand is vested in this individual. As an employer you weigh the stealing versus the benefit of the company through this individual. If he can instigate the team to commit such petty stealing, this means he can also instigate them to work very hard. I think, to protect your label, promote this guy to a responsible position, e.g. make him to be the manager of production team. It sounds very strange but it works. The stealing will stop and production will increase. And in return you have gained respect, trust and above all they consider you their friend. Life goes on.
Great concept. Just heard today - "Follow a Leader with a Limp". I have been wounded by The Captain and Pawn leadership from my past. The key word is Slow Down.