20 Lessons I Wish I'd Learned 20 Years Ago

As an entrepreneur who's built three 8-figure businesses, an investor, a husband, and a father, I’ve learned a lot about success—and even more about life.

Here's the thing: I learned the hard way.

I recently took a moment to reflect. What would I have done differently 20 years ago? What advice would have changed my journey? And now, I want to share those insights with you.

Here are 20 cheat codes that I wish I had known 20 years ago to accelerate your path to success:

1. Balance is a myth.

Life is about being out of balance at times. The key is finding balance in cycles, not all at once.

2. Skill stacking is the game.

Master skills that bring you closer to the money supply: sales, marketing, storytelling—these are timeless.

3. Timing vs. strategy.

There's no such thing as "bad timing," only bad strategies. Focus on finding the right strategy for the right moment.

4. Chase antelope, not mice.

Don’t spend your time on small wins. Go after the big opportunities that really move the needle.

5. The real Law of Attraction.

It’s not just thinking positive—it’s about getting clear on what you want, crafting a compelling story around it, and broadcasting that vision to the right people.

6. Relationships are the key.

Your network determines your net worth. Nurture relationships that add value to your life and career.

7. Give more than you take.

Treat relationships like a bank account. Deposit more than you withdraw. Be generous without expecting anything in return.

8. Learn to get more output with less input.

It’s about working smarter, not harder. Maximize efficiency through systems like GTD (Getting Things Done).

9. Pay for advice.

The right guidance can save you years of trial and error. Invest in mentors and education.

10. Build perspective.

Travel, learn, and expose yourself to new cultures. Different perspectives lead to creative breakthroughs.

11. Know what you want.

Get crystal clear on your vision. The clearer your goals, the easier it becomes to achieve them.

12. Focus on your health.

Your body is your vehicle for success. Keep it running like a high-performance machine.

13. Energy management is key.

Channel your energy where it matters most—people, activities, and food that fuel you, not drain you.

14. Pre-make decisions.

Save mental energy by making as many decisions in advance as possible.

15. Have faith.

Knowing that some things are beyond your control brings peace. Focus on what you can control.

16. Consistency beats perfection.

Show up every day. Small, consistent steps compound over time.

17. Your environment shapes you.

Surround yourself with people who push you to be your best. Your success depends on it.

18. Invest in your team.

Success is rarely a solo venture. Build a team that complements your strengths.

19. Value time over money.

Time is the ultimate currency. Use it wisely, invest in it, and always look for ways to save it.

20. Success leaves clues.

Find someone who has what you want, and do what they did to get there.

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