20 Brutal Truths About Life No One Wants to Admit | Inc.com (via: inc.com)

It's much easier to talk about the weather, sports, and celebrities than your?fear of mortality.

Unfortunately, the more time you spend pretending that ultimate truths don't exist, the more time you waste not?being your authentic self?and getting the most out of every precious second.

Time, not money, is your most valuable asset. Allow the list below to?ignite the spark of motivation?you need to make better use of the time you have on this planet.

Sometimes we need to head into the storm to appreciate the light and have a renewed passion for the beauty of life.

Here are 20 brutal truths that every single person needs to hear.

Stop pretending that you're invincible. Acknowledge the fact of your own mortality, and then start structuring your life in a more meaningful way.

This truth may be saddening at first, but it also gives you permission to make amends with past difficulties and re-establish meaningful relationships with important figures in your life.

Even if you're one of the lucky ones who achieves his or her materialistic dreams, money only amplifies that which was already present.

Happiness is always present in your life--it's just a matter of connecting to it and allowing it to flow through you that's challenging.

Giving your time is a way to change your perception and create a memory for yourself and others that will last forever.

Stop trying to please, and start respecting your values, principles, and autonomy.

Many perfectionists have unrelenting inner critics that are full of so much rage and self-hate that it tears them apart inside. Fight back against that negative voice, amplify your intuition, and start challenging your unrealistic standards.

Intellectually thinking through your problems isn't as helpful as expressing the feelings that create your difficulties in the first place.

Be responsible and take actions that increase positivity and love.

When your time has come to transition from this reality, you won't be thinking about that raise; you'll be thinking about the relationships you've made--so start acting accordingly.

Some of the most talented people in the world never move out from their parent's basement.

You can't control the past, and you can't predict the future, and trying to do so only removes you from the one thing you can control--the present.

Stop looking for people to give you sympathy and start creating the life story you want to read.

Words have the power to oppress, hurt, and shame, but they also have the power to liberate and inspire--start using them more wisely.

You have to put on your own gas mask to save the person sitting right next to you.

Train yourself to respond in a way that leads to better outcomes.

Relationships have a greater impact on your wellbeing and happiness than your income or your occupation, so make sure you give your relationship the attention and work it deserves.

Don't settle for an ego boost right now when you can delay gratification and experience deeper fulfillment.

If you want to change the world, then go out there and do it!

You have the power and responsibility to decide what you do with the time you have, so choose wisely.