2 ways to win her heart
# 1 See her as fellow christian (or other equivalent) human
With few exceptions, people do not stay close and support each other or are willing to stand by the "neighbor".
But in reality .. people move away and keep their distance. Sometimes, for no apparent reason, they feel disgusted and hateful to death.
Man was created a supporter of the "near" - in this sense the woman, the mother, the friends and partners are the "close". UNFORTUNATELY, the opposite is true. Because of the passions that dominate the human heart, man does not honor the meaning
# 2 Show strong humility
Women will test you too often to see if you are willing to rise above your ego to be with her and respect her option to be your girlfriend.
Example: Imply that you are willing to he a dog that eats the bones she thrws at you. If she seems puzzled explain that she is the lord of you heart and even eating what little she has to offer is a big deal for you