17 Signs You’re Not As Mature As You Think
Augustine Diawuo (Mmeredane TV)
A Caretaker of Diawuo.com (Blog) and Mmeredane TV (YouTube)
Do you consider yourself to be mature? Most of us would say yes but if that was the case, our everyday interactions with people would be a lot more pleasant.?
1. Ironically, the most immature people think that they’re really mature.?
They’re very good at judging others and pulling them down, but almost incapable of seeing faults in themselves. They’re in denial of their own weaknesses, and are not willing to admit that they’re human and less than perfect just like everyone else.
2. Immature people deal with conflict or disagreement through aggressive means.?
They misunderstand empathy and compassion as weakness. They try to establish their superiority and authority over someone else by demeaning or insulting them. They are narrow-minded because they do not try to learn from and understand another person’s point of view.
3. Immature people react very negatively to perceived rejection or abandonment.?
They are very amicable when things are going their way, but as soon as they cannot control something, they are incapable of acting gracefully under pressure. They try to turn the tables around by acting like they rejected you, rather than accepting that everyone is entitled to their own opinion.
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4. Immature people do not leave their comfort zones, and resent those who do.?
They box themselves and other people into comfortable categories from which they never grow from, because it gives them the semblance of control. They stick to the familiar and the known in their social and professional life. This is also the reason that they are unable to deal with the uncertainty and the things they can’t control in their life.
5. Immature people gaslight and blame others for their actions.?
They will abuse you, and act like they’re doing you a favor. They will take advantage of you, and victimize themselves. They will drag you down before you have the chance to expose their real selves to them. They prefer the company of people they consider inferior or that they are able to dominate. Since they care so much about their public image, they appear to be superficially perfect.
6. Immature people crave what they can’t have.?
Since their sense of self-worth is based on a false sense of self, it is dependent on external validation. When they can’t have something it proves a direct threat to their ego, which is incongruent with the way they see themselves. They are impatient, and cannot stand the denial of immediate gratification of their selfish needs and desires.
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