17 questions to ask instead of "what do you do?"?

17 questions to ask instead of "what do you do?"

If you're a bit bored with the traditional "what do you do" question that is often displayed as the main part of an introduction during a networking event/party/dinner/else – consider the following questions as a refreshing alternative.

(Some questions won't fit in any context, I trust your sense of judgment??).

Here we go: 17 alternative questions to get to know someone

1.      What do you focus on?

2.      What keeps you busy?

3.      What are you excited about (at work, in life, in your new role)?

4.      Who are you helping with your work?

5.      In which area do you care about making an impact?

6.      What's the best advice you gave someone recently?

7.      What's the best advice you were given recently?

8.      What's one thing you appreciate in your workplace?

9.      What do you most enjoy doing in your work?

10.  What fun fact that people at work don't necessarily know about you?

11.  What's one remarkable book you've read lately?

12.  What's the most cliched advice you were given about business?

13.  What's are you finding surprising in the area/role that you work in?

14.  What's one thing that people say about your work that makes you feel complimented?

15.  How would you explain your work to a visitor from another planet?

16.  What makes you laugh at your work? what entertains you?

17.  Are you active on Linkedin? Who's your favorite content creator?...

Have more alternative intro questions? I didn't expect any less from you?? Add those in the comments below ?? ?? ??

Ivan Idrovo

Market Systems Development/Value Chain Development International Consultant

4 年

Thanks a lot, dear Davida Ginter for triggering this meaningful discussion on a common challenge. Questions 2 and 3 are still bouncing in my mind. Context and social norms for sure will lead the game even before meeting the participants/attendees. However, I've been trying to avoid shutting questions about job duties at first, but rather a simple intro statement to create quick rapport like "is great to have you on board (be connected / with us, etc.) depending on the type of event. Then, and based on their reaction, I would go for the second statement on "sharing and exchanging" as this is more inclusive, personalized and clearly acknowledging the invitee's experience and knowledge.

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Roger Rodríguez Corea .·.

Cultura de Servicio al Cliente | Aprenda a vender más y mejor | AIV

4 年

What a great article, I would add "How is your sunny day today?"

Beata Synowiec

Associate Real Estate Broker?? breath- the source of life and light. ??

4 年

Awesome ideas ?? Thank you ??

Vera Ocampo-Apitana

Top Rated Virtual Assistant to Coaches, Consultants & CEOs | The right-hand person you need so you can focus on your ONE thing. | Admin support and SOPs for your sanity and peace of mind. ??

5 年

These are really great alternatives. I'm loving #s?3 and 4, specifically. :)

Hedi Bachler

Bloggen & Beraten mit ??#@*...

5 年

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