- Attend a small group you don’t lead.
- Find a trusted Christian counselor.
- Develop friends who don’t need you.
- Give up reading how-to ministry/leadership books and read healthy ministry/leadership perspective books instead.
- Journal (and be raw, blunt and honest as needed).
- Talk about a clear understanding of what success - and failure - looks like with your leadership (if applicable).
- Watch Dr. Brene Brown’s TED videos with your leadership - and spend time discussing it.
- Secure a mentor, coach or spiritual director.
- Talk it out. Cry. Weep. Yell.
- Connect regularly with other pastors or leaders in your area with whom you can be honest with about ministry/leadership struggles.
- Practice Sabbath.
- Model the Go-First principle.
- Participate in life-giving hobbies and activities.
- Get out of the zip code for the day.
- Avoid conferences and events that promote celebrities and highlight success.
- Exercise and eat well.