The 11 Pointer Game
Dr. Aparna Sethi
HR | POSH Trainer and Consultant | Corporate Trainer and Coach| Founder Protouch | Thearter Artist ??
Today I just went out with my kid to play badminton. After sometime he went to play squash. I was about to pack my bag, young Rayan wearing smart black sweat shirt asked me “Would you mind playing with me? I don’t have a partner”. Looking at his confidence I was stunned and I said yes. He was half of my height and 5th class grader did not take a minute and asked, “Toss? Let’s play for 11 points.”
I served and enthusiastic Rayan started. He was looking proficient and well trained. I was astonished to see the power in his stokes. Rayan was running, jumping and was trying hard to give his best. But of course I had better hand and I won few points at the beginning. The score was 3- 1. In just few minutes score was 4-1. Slowly I observed decline in young boy’s energy level. He removed his sweat shirt and came back confidently. Then the score became 5 -1. Poor little chap said, “You play well.” I was happy to know that. The score rose to 6-1. Well trained Rayan was striving to score; but I had benefit of experience and age.
He realized his efforts of making me running around are not working out. Then competitive Rayan said, “You win, I quit.” Holding racket in hand I went up to him and said, “Don’t give up. Just try one more time.” Thereafter I changed my strategy in order to make him feel good and to encourage. I started giving up few strokes and he gained few points. Now the score was 6-4. Slowly the score became 8-7. Rayan was encouraged and the little one started playing with enthusiasm. Though I was leading, the strength in his stokes went up and the score reached to 10-11. It was game point and without any intention by fluke, I got the point and I won. Rayan picking his sweatshirt came up to me and shook hands and said, “You really play well, I enjoyed playing with you” and went out of the court. He went out but left management lessons of Gen X and Gen Y in that 11 pointer games:
- Gen Y is well trained. They have knowledge, skills and ability to do a job. Youngsters come from good educational background. They also have good parental support.
- To get best out of them Gen X require to give platform and opportunity to perform without feeling unsecured. In fact they young enthusiast have good techniques with them like technology which Gen X need to learn.
- Gen X always has the edge over Gen Y due to experience. But to retain and encourage Gen Y, Gen X requires take one step back.
- Gen Y is extremely rational. If the goals are not realistic they may give up. Gen X requires helping them for those early wins.
- Gen Y appreciates Gen X and ready to shake hands with Gen X. At the same time they expect hand holding from Gen X.
And just keep playing badminton our country needs decent badminton players :)