10 Ways to Tackle Conflict and Strengthen Your Team

We’ve all experienced those uncomfortable moments when conflict arises, but the key to resolving it lies in effective communication. If it’s managed the right way, conflict can be transformed into an opportunity for stronger relationships and better team outcomes.

Here are 10 strategies to help you manage conflict with ease:

1. Focus on the Person, Not the Problem: Place more value on the person you’re in conflict with than on the issue itself. Aim for a solution that respects everyone involved.
2. Look for Common Ground: Identify shared goals or interests. This gives you a positive direction for the conversation and builds understanding.
3. Create a Safe Space for Dialogue: Avoid blaming language. Use “I feel” statements to express your emotions without causing defensiveness.
4. Tune into Emotional Cues: Pay attention to both verbal and non-verbal signals. If tensions rise, take a step back, pause, and assess how to adjust your approach.
5. Build Trust Through Empathy: Acknowledge when you're wrong, show understanding, and use kind words to maintain trust and psychological safety.
6. Listen Actively: Show that you’re truly listening by summarising their perspective. This helps ensure clarity and shows you’re hearing them out.
7. Work Together on Solutions: Invite the other person to share their thoughts before offering your own. This creates mutual trust and shared responsibility.
8. Stay Open and Adaptable: Present your perspective in a way that invites discussion. Avoid a “win-lose” mentality and embrace flexibility.
9. Avoid Negative Communication: Stay away from sarcasm, hostile language, or actions that could escalate the conflict.
10. Build Connections, Not Divides: Keep the focus on respectful communication to turn conflicts into opportunities for growth and connection.

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ABOUT THE AUTHOR:

Barbara Clifford is a co-founder of The Hinwood Institute.? She is the lead trainer and coach in Time Management and a recognized leader in Stress Management. She is a highly experienced coach, international speaker, columnist, facilitator and accredited mediator.

Barbara?equips busy business leaders to make courageous decisions in pressure situations for the long-term benefit of their business, team and personal wellbeing. Giving them a sense of order; taking them from chaos to calm and transforming their stress into a source of strength.?? She lives in the desert of Alice Springs, Australia working with people around the world.