10 Ways to Stay Confident in Uncertain Times
Sheena Yap Chan
Wall Street Journal & Publishers Weekly Bestselling Author | Confidence & Leadership Keynote Speaker & Corporate Trainer | Book & Podcast Marketing Strategist | Podcaster | Tao Queen
In today's ever-changing world, it's easy to feel overwhelmed and uncertain about the future. Whether it's changes in the workplace, global events, or personal challenges, uncertainty can shake even the most confident among us.
However, staying confident in uncertain times is not only possible but also essential for navigating through life's ups and downs. Here are some practical strategies to help you maintain your confidence, even when the path ahead seems unclear.
1. Focus on What You Can Control In uncertain times, it's important to distinguish between what you can and cannot control. Direct your energy towards actions and decisions within your power. This might include your daily routines, how you respond to challenges, or the effort you put into your work. By focusing on what you can control, you create a sense of stability and purpose, which boosts your confidence.
2. Practice Mindfulness and Stay Present Mindfulness involves staying present and fully engaging with the current moment. This practice can reduce anxiety about the future and help you focus on the here and now. Techniques such as meditation, deep breathing exercises, or simply taking a few moments to appreciate your surroundings can ground you and enhance your confidence.
One of the things that I love to do to practice mindfulness is to take a walk or jog down to the beach. It's my best time to mind dump what I am thinking and I feel better after.
3. Set Realistic Goals Setting small, achievable goals provides a sense of direction and accomplishment. Break down larger tasks into manageable steps and celebrate each milestone you reach. Achieving these smaller goals builds momentum and confidence, helping you feel more in control during uncertain times.
I always believe that taking small actionable daily step is what yields the great results so be okay to set smaller goals to achieve the big picture.
4. Cultivate a Positive Mindset Your thoughts have a powerful impact on your confidence. Challenge negative thoughts and replace them with positive affirmations. Surround yourself with positive influences, such as uplifting books, motivational podcasts, or supportive friends. A positive mindset helps you approach uncertainty with resilience and optimism.
Personal development everyday is essential in this ever changing world. But beware that there is such a thing as toxic positivity. So you if you are feeling down or not so confident, be okay to feel those feelings to let it out and bring in new energy.
5. Build a Support Network Having a strong support network is crucial during uncertain times. Reach out to friends, family, or colleagues who can offer encouragement and perspective. Sharing your concerns and receiving support can lighten your emotional load and reinforce your confidence.
You don't have to do this alone. This is why I am so grateful for my support system such as the USPAACC WISE (Women Initiative for Strategic Empowerment) cohort. I am able to share what I am going through with no judgement. It's all love.
6. Learn and Adapt Embrace uncertainty as an opportunity to learn and grow. Be open to new experiences and willing to adapt to changing circumstances. Developing a growth mindset, where you view challenges as chances to improve, can significantly boost your confidence and ability to handle the unknown.
7. Take Care of Your Well-Being Physical health and mental well-being are closely linked to confidence. Ensure you are taking care of your body through regular exercise, a balanced diet, and sufficient sleep. Additionally, practice self-care activities that nourish your mind and spirit, such as hobbies, relaxation techniques, or spending time in nature.
I usually exercise first thing in the morning. It sets me up for success and I don't have to worry about it later in the day. Create a morning and afternoon routine for your well-being.
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8. Reflect on Past Successes Remembering past successes can remind you of your ability to overcome challenges. Reflect on times when you faced uncertainty and emerged stronger. This reflection can provide reassurance and reinforce your belief in your ability to navigate the present and future uncertainties.
One of the things I have created was a bad ass list where I wrote down all my achievements. When I am feeling down or doubting myself, I can go back to that list to pump myself up.
9. Stay Informed, but Limit Overexposure Being informed is important, but overexposure to negative news can increase anxiety. Set boundaries for your media consumption and seek out reliable sources. Balance staying informed with time spent on positive activities that uplift and energize you.
10. Seek Professional Support if Needed If uncertainty and anxiety are significantly impacting your confidence and well-being, consider seeking professional support. Therapists, counselors, and coaches can provide valuable tools and perspectives to help you navigate challenging times with greater confidence.
Also be okay to receive help when someone offers it. There is no shame in that.
In conclusion, staying confident in uncertain times requires a proactive approach to managing your mindset, actions, and environment. By focusing on what you can control, practicing mindfulness, setting realistic goals, and maintaining a positive and supportive network, you can build and sustain your confidence, no matter what the future holds. Stay confident and resilient!
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Yours truly
Sheena Yap Chan
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4 个月Well done Sheena. I'd love to have you speak at my Toastmasters club (Zoom).
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