1 THING (when applied) THAT WILL IMPROVE YOUR COMMUNICATION 100%

If I asked you, on a scale from 0-10

(0- is very bad, 10-outstanding)

how is your communication with your:

partner,

child,

mother,

father,

siblings,

boss,

colleagues,

employees,

friends...

What would your answer be?

Is the quality of your communication on the same/similar level with everyone mentioned above?

What’s the pattern here?

Or maybe with most people, your communication is pretty good but there is this ONE PERSON that is constantly making you feel upset/angry, stressed out and/or explosive?!

Therefore you are doing everything you possibly can to avoid them.

That normally works but you will not be able to hide when you are scheduled to spend time together, either:

during the business meeting,

while completing a project together,

at a family gathering,

or during upcoming Christmas.

So how can you fix it?

It’s simple, yet not easy, as you will have to put your ego/frustrations/need to be always right, to the pocket.

You can start applying it right away and the more often you do it in minor situations, the easier it will be to communicate during major and difficult conversations.

Here is your strategy:

Instead of listening

to REPLY, (or pretend to listen)

Start listening to UNDERSTAND, what the person you are talking with is:

Meaning

Feeling

Seeing

Hearing

Experiencing

Wanting

Let go of the need to talk about you and ask them clarifying questions, to understand where they are coming from.

It will help you to build rapport with them, which will unlock your channel of communication and help you find a middle ground.

LITTLE SECRET: it will also unlock something within you, it will be way easier for you to let things go and you will feel way more comfortable while being in uncomfortable situations.

Remember to stay Grateful & Present,

Sylvana

Ps. Let me know how did you feel about yourself and that person after applying this simple yet powerful #communicationhack