The #1 Reason Talks Fall Apart
Anna pointing to an audience member, "What YOUR big idea (buddy)??!"

The #1 Reason Talks Fall Apart

Watch or read on!

When talks fall apart, it’s almost always because the speaker hasn’t gotten clear on that big idea—the one central message.

On our application, after name and email, the first question we ask is: “What’s your Big Idea?” If an applicant takes more than about 15 words to explain it, I know they don’t have it yet.

The best ideas are easy to articulate and spark curiosity. Here are a few examples from the TED stage:

  • Brene Brown: "Vulnerability is an act of courage and a key component of daring leadership." – 13 words.
  • Simon Sinek: "Successful leaders inspire their team by sharing the 'why' before the 'what' or the 'how.'" – 14 words.

Now, maybe you're thinking, “Well, TED talks are short, so of course, there is only ONE big idea. But I’m speaking for an hour. I probably need several big ideas, right?”

NO!

ALL THE BEST TALKS ARE FOCUSED ON A SINGLE, BIG IDEA

Big ideas aren’t just for the TED stage. Every great talk is built around a single big idea.

Consider JFK’s "Inaugural Address": "Ask not what your country can do for you – ask what you can do for your country." Or Michelle Obama's speech at the 2020 Democratic National Convention: "When they go low, we go high." – 7 words!

It doesn’t matter how long your talk is. For example, my talk is 45 minutes long, but I only have one big idea: if you want to be an effective speaker, learn to talk like TED.

BIG IDEA IS SINGULAR.

There’s a reason for this: As listeners, we’re not good at holding more than one idea in our heads at a time.

If your talk is longer, just add more sections. But here’s the key: each section must serve your big idea.

SO HOW DO YOU FIND THAT BIG IDEA?

Here’s what I tell my speakers:

Once you have a general idea of what you want to talk about, start by seeing what others are saying about the same topic. For example, if you want to give a TED talk about leadership, Google “TED + leadership.”

What talks are already out there, and what can you add to the conversation?

If you're not giving a TED talk, ask what other experts like you are saying. What are they missing?

And if you can’t find any similar talks, ask someone who might be in your audience what questions they have about your topic. What do you wish they KNEW?

TO SUM IT UP ...

A great talk is defined by its clarity and focus. Whether your talk is 7 minutes or 45 minutes, it’s crucial to stick to one big idea. Finding that idea means identifying what’s missing in the conversation and what can spark curiosity in your audience. Stay focused, and make sure every part of your presentation aligns with that core message.

Want help finding your big idea or writing an upcoming talk or keynote?

Book a free 15-minute consultation, and we'll create a plan together. I'm also happy to answer any questions you have. https://calendly.com/thehiredpens/15-minute-consultation-free

要查看或添加评论,请登录

Anna Goldsmith的更多文章

  • Should I memorize my talk?

    Should I memorize my talk?

    “Do or do not, there is no try,” said Yoda. When it comes to memorizing your talk, the same principle applies: either…

    2 条评论
  • How to win over your audience in 7 seconds

    How to win over your audience in 7 seconds

    WATCH ..

    8 条评论
  • "Help! I'm sick of my talk ... what should I do?"

    "Help! I'm sick of my talk ... what should I do?"

    This was a question I received from one of my audience members yesterday, after attending my talk, "How to Use…

    2 条评论
  • Want to keep your audience engaged? Answer this one question.

    Want to keep your audience engaged? Answer this one question.

    A compelling opener will get your audience to sit up and listen, but to KEEP them engaged, you need to answer the…

    1 条评论
  • Which opening do you like more?

    Which opening do you like more?

    Opening #1: “I know none of us want to be here, but we need to talk about the new safety cable we’re adding to all…

    2 条评论
  • The Biggest Storytelling Mistake Speakers Make (And What To Do Instead!)

    The Biggest Storytelling Mistake Speakers Make (And What To Do Instead!)

    Did you know that people are 22 times more likely to remember what you tell them if you present it in the form of a…

    1 条评论
  • "What if I'm not funny?"

    "What if I'm not funny?"

    For this issue of my newsletter, I’m sharing a letter from a long-time reader. Dear Anna, I'm a huge fan of your…

    1 条评论
  • HOW TO FIND YOUR BIG IDEA FOR THE TEDx STAGE

    HOW TO FIND YOUR BIG IDEA FOR THE TEDx STAGE

    It’s the first and most important question on our TEDxPortsmouth application: What’s your big idea? You’d think someone…

  • Why "slow down!" is bad advice for speakers

    Why "slow down!" is bad advice for speakers

    Now, let me first say: if you are speaking a mile a minute, that's not great. You should definitely slow down (and take…

    4 条评论
  • A Simple Framework for Structuring Your Talk

    A Simple Framework for Structuring Your Talk

    Recently, my dentist hired a new hygienist. The previous hygienist — and ALL hygienists except this one — scrape your…

    5 条评论