1-Minute Wednesday No. 162: The Power of Asking the Third Question
Curiosity is often cited as the most common trait of successful thinkers and innovators. But while we are all born with a natural sense of curiosity, for many of us, it seems to decrease over time.
There are lots of theories on why this happens, but I’m more interested in how we get it back.?
I used to think enduring curiosity was something you were born with - like winning the genetic lottery. But the more I learn, the less I believe this is true.
Here’s what I’ve discovered:
Genuine curiosity
And one way to cultivate it is by asking the third question
When learning about a new topic, the first question is often surface-level. The second dives deeper, but the third question begins to challenge assumptions and uncover fresh insights.??
Here’s what I mean.?
In a work meeting, instead of just asking about the project deadline or the objectives, ask:
In your personal relationships, instead of asking how someone’s day was, ask:
Disciplined curiosity isn’t about knowing more; it’s about questioning more. And by doing so, you can expand your understanding
Next time you’re in a conversation or learning something new, go further. Ask the second and third question. See where it takes you.
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1 年If you are really interested in the other person, your question(s) will be deep enough to answer. I've learned that the best interaction is a two-way-street where questions and answers follow each-other like a well runned engine. An old business partner of mine silenced his interrogator with the magic words: what are you going to do with all that information?
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1 年Excellent advice, as usual Greg “Q” McKeown, thank you.
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1 年What does the "Q" in your name stand for, Greg “Q” McKeown. I didn't notice it earlier. Haven't seen it on your books or on Audible either. So, I'm curious to know more.
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1 年Awesome idea that curiosity is a discipline we can nurture! A really great perspective to keep in mind. Greg “Q” McKeown
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1 年Great read article, Greg “Q” McKeown. Your insights on cultivating curiosity are sure to be eye-opening. Thanks sharing!