暗送秋波 (àn sòng qiū bō)

The Chinese idiom is a poetic and somewhat romantic expression that can be tricky for foreigners to understand at first. Let’s break it down:

Literal Meaning:

• 暗 (àn): Secretly, covertly
• 送 (sòng): To send or deliver
• 秋波 (qiū bō): Literally “autumn waves,” but metaphorically refers to the beautiful, affectionate gaze of a person’s eyes (often a woman’s).

Figurative Meaning:

The idiom describes someone sending flirtatious or affectionate glances in a subtle way, often without speaking. It implies hidden admiration, love, or attraction.

English Equivalent Expressions:

• "Make eyes at someone"
• "Exchange amorous glances"
• "Send flirtatious looks"

Example Usage:

Romantic Setting:

• 他在会议上偷偷地对她暗送秋波，但没有人注意到。
• "He secretly sent her flirtatious glances during the meeting, but no one noticed."

Metaphorical or Playful Use:

• 这家餐厅的服务员总是对客人暗送秋波，生意当然好啦！
• "The waiters at this restaurant always give customers flirtatious glances—of course business is good!"

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