What is the difference between wanting to be right to be validated versus getting what we want? I was fascinated by Felix vs Draper controversial point (link below). Felix returns a ball, Draper hits the ball with his racket and bounces off the ground, which would be considered a bad hit. Everyone wants to get this right. Felix: (to the referee) - Looking for validation: are you 100% sure it was a good return? - Manipulation: this is going to be on TV, are you sure. Draper: - (to almost everyone): I am willing to replay the point; I am not sure what happened. - (to the referee)(not wanting to own his action): it's your call. Referee: - I saw the ball bounce up, I did see that (not bounce off the floor or racket) In my opinion, Felix could have easily replay the point (although anyone could argue he had won it already) but he chose to not accept Draper's offer to replay it. If he would have, this would have been not much of a big deal. Instead, Felix chose to honor the referee's call and lose the match. Unfortunately, I don't believe this is what he wanted. The language of choice allows us to connect and if Felix would have chosen to replay the point, it is possible he could have won it. In sports, we always say, the ball never lies. Imagine, if Felix would have said, Draper, I appreciate and accept the offer to replay the point. The odds are Felix would have been happier. So I wonder, what went through Felix mind to want to change the referee's call or judgment over accepting Draper's offer? There is no wrong or right choice here. There is the choice to get what we all want and I think everyone in that game left misunderstood, Draper as a cheater, which he was not, the referee as being wrong but even with the video it is hard to tell, the referee did the best he could and Felix, he lost the match on a controversial point. This is the language of wrongness, always wanting go be right! Are you aware when you use the language of wrongness? https://lnkd.in/gJsHtcvW
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Did you know that "reacting" is faster than acting intentionally? This paradoxic idea is one of the most important laws in building game sports tactics, since it was proven by a Danish physicist Niels Bohr in an experiment called the "gunfighter's dilemma." To learn what is "true agility", and how to accurately test it, check out our new MM blog. ?? https://lnkd.in/dQMaJNX6
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Ever thought you had done enough just for someone to move the goalposts and say you haven't? You might have overheard the recent conversation between Gareth Southgate, England Men's Footy Managers, and English Media/Public? Media/Pub: "Right Gareth, we want you to qualify for the knockout stages." GS: "OK, done." Media/Pub: "Right Gareth, we don't want you to loose a game." GS: "OK, done." Media/Pub: "Right Gareth, we want you to win the group."? GS: "OK, done." Media/Pub: "Right Gareth, we want you to win every game and do so in such style that we can applaud you and find no fault because we deserve this from you." GS: "Ermmm...." We are not Brazil from the 1970s or Spain from the 2010s, where, tbh, they would score more than the other team - however many goals the other team scored! The key to winning a competition is getting through each stage and not loosing. We are on track. P.S. Photo is me, putting on the layers ready for a beating!
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?? What is the 'Optimal' rest day in Football? is it MD+1 or MD+2? How do we plan for it??? ?? Really cool study by Martin BUCHHEIT et al (https://lnkd.in/eV3_Wg6N). ?? Data identifies that a rest day included on MD+2, significantly reduces non-contact injuries. PS/ Rest day is 'Day off Feet', zero on field training! ?? Chart below identifies that the MD+2 rest day is especially important on 3 day & 7 day microcycles (Blue diamonds refer to MD+2 rest day, and lower these are, the better). ?? The rest day at MD+2, is one of Raymond Verheijen 'principles' of using objective methods to inform our practice.
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In case you missed it, the latest post is available on the blog! Want to see how where I rank the top 5 centre backs in the Premier League? Head over to the link down below to check it out! As always, don’t forget to like, comment, share with friends and subscribe so you get notified when a new post goes live! Also, if there are any topics people want me to talk about let me know as well. https://lnkd.in/ezYwjN5P
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WATCH ??: https://lnkd.in/gJrKJEES In an effort to better understand prep step timing, I dove deep into Francisco Lindor’s 2023 defensive portfolio. That led to a large amount of number crunching and video scouting which in turn resulted in the scatter plot you see below. Check out the video for the details of the chart and the conclusions I found through my research ??
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Did you know that football players can still have neuromuscular and perceptual fatigue up to THREE days after a game? Have you experienced something different? Could the culture in football have affected these findings? Read the Performance Digest here?? https://lnkd.in/g42__Ur8
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Brilliant article in The Times today by Matt Dickinson on the proper use of VAR in football, as demonstrated by the light touch approach taken in the Arsenal v Bayern match the other night. As Dickinson correctly identifies, the decision for the Video Assistant Referee, in relation to any given incident, is not whether or not the on field decision was correct but rather whether it was so obviously wrong that VAR ought to intervene (ie some form Wednesbury type test is to be applied). If that approach is adopted, rather than a futile quest for perfection, there will be fewer interruptions, they will be shorter in duration and the game will flow. Of course, whether this would ever stop managers moaning about unfair decisions is a completely different matter!
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Our media students have put together a recap video of our time at the 2024 Duel Down Under event! Check out the video using the link below: https://lnkd.in/gaBXQ9Qe
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