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Excellence is beautiful but it comes with a unfair burden and betrayal for women and people of color. In a world marred by bias and systemic inequality, being exceptional as a woman or person of color is a double-edged sword. On one hand, it's a testament to resilience, talent, and determination. On the other, it's a burden laden with expectations, scrutiny, and the constant struggle against entrenched prejudice. For women and people of color, every step forward is met with skepticism, as if our success is an anomaly rather than a result of hard work and merit. We're forced to navigate a labyrinth of biases, constantly proving ourselves worthy in a society that often sees us as less than. The pressure to excel becomes suffocating, as we carry the weight of representation on our shoulders. We're expected to be flawless ambassadors of our race or gender, to defy stereotypes and shatter glass ceilings with grace and poise. But the reality is, we're human, flawed and fallible like everyone else. And yet, when we do succeed, our achievements are often diminished or attributed to factors other than our own abilities. We're told we got lucky, or that we only got ahead because of affirmative action or diversity quotas. Our accomplishments are seen as exceptions to the rule, rather than the rule itself. But perhaps the greatest betrayal of all is the internalization of these biases. We begin to question our own worth, internalizing the message that we don't belong, we're not good enough. Imposter syndrome can creep in, whispering doubts in our ears and sowing seeds of self-doubt. But despite the obstacles, we persist. We refuse to be defined by society's narrow expectations, carving out our own paths and redefining what it means to be exceptional. We stand tall, not in spite of our identities, but because of them. So, to all the exceptional women, people of color and other marginalized people out there, know this: Your worth is not determined by the biases of others. You are not defined by the limitations placed upon you. You are extraordinary, not in spite of your race or gender, but because of it. And in a world that seeks to diminish your brilliance, remember that your light shines brightest when you refuse to be dimmed.
