Some thoughts I put together on my latest gig, as founding engineer at MatterMore, working with Mathew Lazarus and Matt Shenker.
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At work, I’ve both struggled with challenging managers and struggled as a manager myself. And I’ve learned, especially lately, that this experience is all too common (more on that below).
I’ve also experienced, from both sides, what comes of a positive, emotionally open working relationship based in trust and mutual understanding; the effect this has on productivity, sure, but more important on wellness in the workplace – something I think I’m finally understanding the impact of at this point in my life and career.
I’ve been lucky enough to have taken a few extended periods off of work, and have used each of them to step back, reflect, and get something I needed at the time. In past breaks, after investment banking and startup grinds, I’ve focused on setting boundaries and shifting to finding meaning primarily outside of work.?In this most recent period after leaving my last job, though – from a place of newfound stability and groundedness – my understanding of the role of work in my life evolved again. I want – need – it to be a source of meaning, purpose and connection. Not the only source, but a significant one, and one that’s in balance with the rest of my life.
And so: I’m excited to be part of this young project at MatterMore, which is focused on helping workplaces become that positive source for more people; for managers who want to effectively lead their reports but aren’t always empowered to do that well, and the individual contributors who are so reliant on and affected by that leadership.
Personally, I’m feeling renewed purpose and connection: because of the nature of working at an early stage startup, because of what we’re building, but also – very importantly – because of the working relationship I have with my two emotionally thoughtful and engaged cofounders; my “managers”. And I’m just thrilled by the idea of deploying that wisdom through technology to bring that same connection to others.