Before you get DISTRACTED! ??
Do you want to make some changes for your family but keep getting distracted from actually doing them?
Making changes as a parent can be the same as any other task, like getting around to painting the spare bedroom; typically, it can be left until it's urgent and a special guest is coming. ??
Parents often know things are not working, but until a crisis hits, they keep distracted with things that take their mind off the problem because it's easier. ??
I understand being distracted as much as the next person.
Maybe more than most, especially over the last few years for me, but we need to cut out the noise if we want to keep moving forward at full speed. ??
Consistency is the key ingredient to moving forward and making change.
Yet, there's always the chance of distractions even after dialing in our focus. ??
The truth is that it takes a lot of work to keep focused and consistent.
I am sure every parent feels distracted. They start a new rule or boundary with their family, get distracted, and do something else. ??
They end up in an endless cycle of struggling with the same old problems and feel they are on a stressful roller coaster ride. ??
Getting distracted is easier when you learn something new because it takes so much more energy and focus until it becomes second nature, just like riding a bike. ??♀?
The way to make the inevitable distractions easier is to have a real solid plan so it can be replicated repeatedly with the same great results. Then, it becomes second nature. ??
If you're interested in learning a proven system designed for every parent to stay focused and consistent so they can step off the stressful parenting roller coaster, call me, and I will show you how. ??
BOOK YOUR FREE CALL HERE:
https://lnkd.in/eYCCY86s
Warm regards,
Ruth :)
#ParentingTips #ChildBehavior #PositiveParenting #ParentingAdvice #FamilyLife #ParentingCoach #ConsistentParenting #FocusOnFamily #ParentingSupport #FamilyWellness #ParentingJourney #ParentalGuidance #ParentingStruggles #ParentingChallenges #StressFreeParenting
Yes! Badmouthing your ex and/or the new partner is a one-way ticket to years of therapy for your child. It might be time to look within and explore your own emotions and begin the healing process if your go-to reaction to difficult situations is havoc and conflict.