Debra Smith的动态

Money... Some people hate talking about it. It’s rude, bad manners, and socially unacceptable. Or is that just how we feel about it? Feelings – whilst useful – aren’t facts. If you flip the lid and start talking about raising money for a charity or a cause, we feel more comfortable with it. Many of the leaders and execs I work with want more money. They’d like a certain lifestyle, career goal, or promotion. And there is nothing wrong with that. Money doesn’t equal happiness, but it does provide choice, security and your standard of living. How do you feel about money…? #seniorleadership #executivecoaching #braintraining

Do you sometimes feel a sense of grey despair at the thought of another family of person being impacted by DV and you don't know what to do? Well, there is a simple solution and inexpensive one - you can help us to strengthen the individuals who choose to make a difference and step into the awful world of DV as true super heroes. It is simple and direct - we're building up the front line with praise to be the generational change in DV. Our Hunt for Hero Awards are unique in that they identify people in the Australian community who are using their personal energy to make a difference and selflessly help others. Unlike other awards, this is a peer-to-peer system that allows people to nominate people, not organisations, and help to shine a light on the person. Over the past 4 years we have met simply amazing people who will humble you with their story and effort. Our job as a charity is to provide some humble prizes to the person (nothing fancy but so they don't go without at Christmas), facilitate an awards ceremony and produce a space to celebrate the strength as we make the social change against DV. Everyone needs praise and these folks are often the unsung heroes of our society. So don't despair! Next time you and your mates are filled with despair at what to do, instead drop $5 in the awards jar and help us to highlight what good humans are doing. We want these front-line warriors of all shapes and sizes to be the headline, not the incidents. Here's the link - drop us a fiver and know you are helping to make a difference today. https://lnkd.in/gegZzPdz

? Accountability… with a Twist! ? “You don’t rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems.” – James Clear, Atomic Habits ?? A month ago, my friends and I started an accountability group to keep ourselves on track. But here’s the twist: if you miss a check-in, you have to donate half to charity, and the other half? We "chop the money" and share it amongst ourselves! ?? Let me tell you, the thought of someone else chopping your money is very motivating! Suddenly, showing up became a lot easier. ?? And if someone forgets to show up? Well, we quickly learn that “bad habits repeat themselves again and again, not because you don’t want to change, but because you have the wrong system.” ?? And our charity donations and chopping money makes us stay motivated! This has helped me stay consistent. It has brought me out of my shell and helped me discover talents I didn’t even know I had. ?? To anyone struggling with consistency, remember: “Every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to become.” Start small and stay consistent. You’ve got this! #TechJourney #PersonalGrowth #Accountability #AtomicHabits #ChopYourMoney #StayMotivated #GrowthMindset #Consistency #HabitsForSuccess #GoalSetting #SmallWins #Motivation

In 2014, I decided to take on a challenge I had never done before. To walk 100,000 steps in one day and, in the process, raise money for charity. As I shared the idea around with some people, they said it couldn't be done. Instead of getting in my head and trying to analyse whether it could be done, I set a date, woke up at 6 am that day, and started walking. And to make matters more interesting, I decided to do it the day before New Years. I have to admit the task seemed daunting, I remember waking up thinking, how the hell am I going to pull this off? What was I thinking? Instead of over-analysing, I just put on my shoes and started walking. My strategy that day was not to think about the distance but to take it street by street. This allowed me to stay present, not get overwhelmed and enjoy the process. I can't say it was easy and that I didn't think about quitting numerous times as the pain was unbearable, but somehow, I pulled myself together and got there with 2 minutes left (see below). I couldn't imagine putting anything up on my socials besides a screenshot of me completing the 100,000. That day reinforced my belief that anything is possible if you have a compelling reason why, the importance of following through no matter how you feel and that sometimes, it's better not to plan and just get started.

You worked hard all your life and, combined with a bit of luck, have created an amazing living legacy. However, when you pass, a large chunk of that legacy might be given to the government rather than to your heirs or the causes you care about due to what we at ASE Private Wealth? call the Social Capital Tax?. Fortunately, we are living in the ideal time to engage in proactive planning that may allow you to convert that living legacy into a lasting legacy, allowing more of your hard earned success to flow to your family and to the charities you champion. Follow along the next few weeks as we take a brief historical trip, get the current lay of the land, and then discuss ways that you can help ensure you can successfully leave the legacy you choose.

Which one of the following blocks are keeping you from giving to #effective charity? ?? 1. "I can't afford it" ?? 2. "It would be a waste" ?? (assuming that charity isn't effective) 3. "I’m worried of virtue signalling" ??? (cudos to James Rayton ?? for this list) For me, it was No. 1. While I recognise that money is a legitimate concern for some, I eventually got tired of my own excuses. Upon completing an introductory course into #effectivealtruism, I finally decided to walk my talk and take the 10% Pledge. Nothing about my life has changed since. In fact, I don't even notice that the money is withdrawn every month, yet I know that it makes a world of a difference for the people, animals and the environment benefited by the causes I support. ?? Who would've thought that doing something as seemingly unusual as giving 10% of your income could be so painless? I really hope that it becomes the new norm. What is a rather small step for us individually, can make a huge difference for everyone. ???? I encourage you to pre-contemplate the idea of giving what you can until you feel comfortable enough to take the leap. Check out Giving What We Can for more info! ??

Are You Doing Your Part? We all have a part in this world. A unique role in filling gaps where there is need. Our part might seem small, but even the smallest effort contributes to something far greater than ourselves. Whether it’s supporting a struggling family, giving time to a cause, donating, or simply being present for someone in need, our actions ripple beyond what we can see. There is a universal law that relates to this: the Law of Cause and Effect. Every action we take, no matter how minor, creates an effect in the world. This law shows us that everything is connected, and nothing happens on its own. Our efforts, when joined with those of others, create waves of change. Just like a pebble tossed into water creates ripples that extend outward, your acts of kindness, compassion, and service extend far beyond your immediate reach. It’s like building a wall, each brick is someone’s effort. One brick on its own doesn’t look like much, but when you stack them together, you build something strong. When everyone does their part, it creates something solid and lasting. So, are you doing your part? In a world that often feels overwhelming, chaotic, and divided, it's easy to think our individual contributions don’t matter. But they do. Every small action counts. Every gap you fill, every person you help, every time you step up—you’re creating a better world. The world is waiting for your part. Will you answer the call? Remember: one small step from you can ignite change for generations. Let’s not wait for someone else to act. Be the difference. Do your part. The world is counting on it. https://lnkd.in/gRGzG3wd #BeTheDifference #TheRobbKellyFoundation

Charity is truly a gift that pays it forward. But did you know that charity in multiple forms, statistically proven, makes you happier? In my latest article, we discuss an article from Arthur Brooks on why giving matters. These facts are incredible. It will change your perspective on giving.

Food for thought question? As we go through life, I often wonder about the best way to give and help others. Let's look at two people and their approaches to giving. Meet Sam. He doesn't have much money, but he has a big heart. When he earns $20, he gives $15 to those in need, even though his own life is tough. He believes in helping others, no matter how little he has. Then there's Mr. Jay. He earns $100 a day and gives $20 to charity. People see him as generous because he gives a larger amount of money. But here's the question: Who is more generous? The person receiving the money might think Mr. Jay is, because $20 is more than $15. But is it about the amount of money given, or is it about the heart and effort behind it? So, what do you think? Is it better to give even when you have little, like Sam? Or should you wait until you have more to give, like Mr. Jay? What's the best way to show generosity?