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All of us at Family Service Center wish you a happy and emotionally healthy Thanksgiving holiday filled with all that makes you joyful this time of year. In a world and time that sometimes can feel overwhelming, we are thankful to be part of a community that cares so deeply about the well-being of others. However you plan to spend this Thanksgiving holiday, we hope it is the right balance of connection and self-care. If you are attending gatherings that you worry will include at least a few difficult moments to manage, read here for a few tips to consider: https://conta.cc/3ZtcUM5

?? Christmas is about bringing everyone together, but for many older relatives, the season can feel isolating. A little thought and care can make all the difference. Whether it’s baking simple festive treats, sharing family stories, or just enjoying a quiet moment with a cup of tea, small gestures go a long way in helping older family members feel included. Here are some ideas to make Christmas truly special this year: ? Adapt traditions like games or cooking so everyone can take part. ? Plan a cosy, restful space for when things get too busy. ? Share a festive meal that works for everyone – even an afternoon tea can feel magical. ? Stay connected, even if you can’t be together, with video calls or care packages. It’s often the little moments that matter most ?? Read the full guide for more tips to make this Christmas one to remember – link in the comments! ??

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?? Thanksgiving is still a pretty new concept for me, but I love the idea behind it—taking a moment to pause and feel grateful for the good things in life. It’s so easy to get caught up in work, stress, or just the day-to-day rush that we forget to notice the little things that make us happy. Recently, I started this simple habit: every night, I write down 5 good things from my day (I use a messaging app on my phone). They don’t have to be big—just moments that made me smile or feel good. Like a great working session where everything clicked, a 1:1 meeting that boosted my focus, a nice walk in the morning, a tasty lunch, or even finishing a good book. It’s been helping me teach my brain to enjoy the little things in life, even on the busiest, most stressful days. And honestly, it’s such a good way to end the day—it reminds me that there’s always something to be grateful for, no matter what. So, as Thanksgiving gets closer, I want to share this habit with you. Try it out—write down 5 good things from your day, even if they seem small. It’s amazing how much those small moments can add up when you take the time to notice them. Wishing you all a happy Thanksgiving season! ??

It’s Christmas season, and the household decided that my “secret recipe” Christmas cake had matured long enough… so, we sliced it, air fried it, sugared it (etc) and ate it! How long had it matured, I virtually hear you asking? Much longer than you think. So, Christmas quiz time: What’s your guess? And, yes, it was delicious - if, probably, very difficult to ever repeat. But, such is the way with all things: they are transient. We preserve and sustain and scrimp and save but, despite many an archaic belief, you can’t take it with you. Hence, we ate a cake that will never likely be replicated. And? We enjoyed it! Save and be ready for emergencies. But don’t not do what you want to do for fear of tomorrow. Rather fear no tomorrows and be alive today. Yeah, yeah. I turned Christmas cake into a podium for morosely moralistic philosophising! Somewhat expected as year end approaches and we each begin our fervent annual navel gazing, our perennial period of reflexive introspection and retrospective analysis… “What did I do wrong last year?” “What can I do to make next year better?” “What is ‘better’?” Deep Thought sought the dolphins and the mice for such profundities…and that poor whale spent its short, sudden, plummeting existence futilely pondering much the same… ?? My advice? Spend less time on such subjective enquiry and simply enjoy the holidays… and some Christmas cake, if you can get it!

Every no is an opportunity to say yes to something better. Hosting Thanksgiving is often a balancing act of trying to fit everything in and make it all “perfect.” This year I intentionally chose a different approach. I said no to the things that didn’t bring me joy or meaning, so I could say yes to what truly matters. Here’s what I let go of: ? Checking email or scrolling social media ? Making dishes that don’t spark joy (no stuffing!) ? Cooking everything on Thanksgiving day ? Stressing over a perfectly clean and decorated home Here’s what I gained: ? Time to call and message people who matter ? Sweet, uninterrupted moments with my family ? Real memories captured with my good camera ? Permission to myself to lean into the joy of Christmas music and decor. It makes me happy, so why wait? TIME Real, unhurried time to just BE. We can’t say yes to everything and when we try, we often lose what matters most in the shuffle. As I reflect on Thanksgiving, I’m reminded that sometimes the best memories come from focusing less on doing and more on being. What strikes me most is how often we cling to the idea of “doing it all,” even when it doesn’t serve us. Letting go of the unnecessary gave me room to enjoy Thanksgiving rather than be hurried. As we step into the rest of the holiday season, I’m carrying this mindset with me. Because the best memories aren’t built on perfection, they’re built on presence. What’s one thing you’re saying no to this season so you can say yes to what matters most?

?? The Countdown Is On: 39 Sleeps Until Christmas! ?? The most wonderful time of the year is just around the corner – only 39 sleeps until Christmas! As we prepare for the holidays, let’s take a moment to reflect on the magic of the season. ? What makes this countdown so special? For some, it’s the joy of decorating the tree or baking holiday treats. For others, it’s finding the perfect gifts for loved ones or revisiting cherished traditions. But for all of us, it’s about creating moments of connection, love, and gratitude. ?? Here are a few ways to make the most of the Christmas countdown: Start early on your holiday gift list to avoid the last-minute rush. Plan special activities like movie nights, cookie baking, or decorating with your family. Reflect on the true meaning of the season – a time for giving, togetherness, and hope. The holidays are about so much more than the hustle and bustle – they’re about making memories that will warm your heart for years to come. ?? What’s your favorite part of the Christmas countdown? Comment “COUNTDOWN” below and share how you’re celebrating the days leading up to December 25th. ?Let’s inspire one another to make this season magical! Here’s to a joyful, meaningful holiday season filled with love and light. ??? #HolidayCheer #ChristmasCountdown #FestiveSeason #HolidayTraditions #39SleepsToChristmas

If you celebrated Thanksgiving this past weekend, you likely observed that most people tend to talk at you, not to you... draining your battery like a phone toasting in the sun. And if you read that and thought, "hmm, I didn't notice that..." well, you're likely one of those people -- sometimes known as "a talker." So with more holidays on the horizon, here's a quick, "How to not talk at someone, Turkey edition." 1. ?? Before a chat, think of 1 thing you want to learn from the other person or ask them about. 2.??Actually listen to what they have to say. The only way this works is if there's something you genuinely want to learn or hear about from them. And if you don't actually care, at least toss in a few head nods and a clarifying question. 3.?If while speaking, you realize the other person didn't ask you a question, you're likely talking at them and they're likely looking for a way out of the convo. Wrap up what you're saying and give a pause -- if they say something like, "that's great," you've been talking at them big time. TL:DR 1. Be curious about something 2. Actually listen 3. Be self-aware of rambling Anyone else make a similar observation during Thanksgiving?

Christmas, Chaos, and Clarity – Redefining the Festive Season Post 1: The Christmas Compass – Finding Your True North Christmas often feels like being caught in a blizzard of expectations. Should you say yes to every invitation? Buy the latest must-have toys? Be the “perfect” host? The truth is, you can’t steer through the season without knowing your true north—what matters most to you. The festive season has a way of pulling us into other people’s priorities. It might be the in-laws insisting on traditions that don’t feel meaningful to you or the pressure to keep up with picture-perfect social media posts. Over time, we lose sight of what makes Christmas ours. Think of your values as a compass. They guide decisions that align with who you are. Is connection more important than gifts? Is simplicity what you crave? When you use these as your guide, you’re less likely to feel overwhelmed by others’ expectations. Coaching Activity: Define Your Festive Values Write down three things that make Christmas meaningful for you. Is it quality time with family? Acts of kindness? A sense of calm? Use these values to filter your decisions—say yes to what aligns, and gracefully decline the rest. #values #christmas #priorities #coaching

As we start thinking ahead to Thanksgiving, here are some tips to ensure a memorable and stress-free holiday for your little ones: ?? Plan Ahead: Make a timeline for meal prep and stick to it! This will help you avoid last-minute chaos in the kitchen. ?? Get the Kids Involved: Include your little ones in the festivities by assigning them fun tasks like setting the table, helping with simple recipes, or creating festive decorations. ?? Create a Gratitude Tree: Set up a small tree or branch where everyone can hang notes of what they're thankful for. It’s a lovely way to reflect on the blessings of the year. ?? Keep It Simple: Focus on a few key dishes instead of trying to make everything. Your guests will appreciate the effort without feeling overwhelmed. ?? Relax and Enjoy: Remember, it’s about spending time with loved ones. Take a deep breath and enjoy the moment—imperfections make for great memories! Wishing you and your family a wonderful Thanksgiving filled with love, laughter, and gratitude! #ThanksgivingTips #Gratitude #FamilyTime #Thanksgiving2023