A decade ago, pregnant with my first child, I assured my mother that I would produce a daughter who would enjoy lengthy, sedate reading sessions, with the odd philosophical discussion for variety. Whilst I wasn’t astonished to be blessed with two rowdy boys – they run in the family – having been the least athletic child ever, their sport obsession really has been a shock.
Unlike my ten year old, I do not believe that my sons are destined to be successive captains of Liverpool FC. Nonetheless, our lives are dominated by a timetable of football practices, athletics meetings, cricket tournaments and swimming events. Why? Well, it has the advantage of wearing them out, I’ll admit, but there is more to it. The discipline. The teamwork. The communication. The opportunity to widen their world view and life experience, meeting children from entirely different backgrounds, navigating disagreements on and off pitch, collectively celebrating and commiserating every victory and defeat.
Finding the right clubs for them was a process of trial and error. It is five years since we joined our first community football project for kids aged five and over. They were as terrible as I expected: the stuff sitcoms are made of. But that’s not why it was the first of several clubs that we walked away from. We voted with our feet every time I saw coaches misunderstand the task at hand, focusing on ball skills where they should have started with discipline; building rivalry not camaraderie; criticising and sowing self-doubt where they could have buoyed up a team of eager young boys with encouragement, hope and self-confidence.
I don’t expect every child who is given an instrument, or an opportunity to sing, to become a professional musician. That’s not why arts education exists. It is to develop basic life-skills that enable them to engage in class; indeed which make them want to be in school in the first place. It is to put opportunity into a child’s hands. It is to open a door to them, to say that this world, this passion, this excitement belongs to you. It is for you. You are welcome. And by opening up that opportunity, we build life chances. We build personality. Resilience. Confidence. Excitement. Eagerness. We play a pivotal part in developing fully-rounded individuals who will find joy in life and want to contribute actively to communities and society at large.
This is why I’m so excited to be part of Gabrieli Roar. In the next 3 weeks we will work with over 3500 teenagers, performing at 11 cathedrals from Truro to Carlisle. Come and hear them! Come and experience the joy of young people's music making, seeing them rise to the occasion and raise the roof, revelling in their shared achievement, thrilled by what is possible when they are given the opportunity and supported to succeed.
Society needs this, perhaps just as much as – dare I suggest, even more than? – it needs football.
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Chief Executive Officer/ Owner at Marcam Associates
2 周Congrats to all but a big ole shout out to the twin states chapter. We did this together with hard work and dedication from the incredible membership and our board. So proud how far we have come. Semper Fi!