Anyone else feel like they're in a committed, yet utterly toxic, relationship with their job search? One day, it's all hopeful glances and promises, and the next, I'm left on read and wondering if I did something wrong. The back and forth is whiplash-worthy, honestly. This is officially worse than my Tinder days. I’m not even asking for fireworks...just a stable relationship with an employer who doesn’t ghost me. Too much to ask? ?? #jobseeking #jobhunt #jobsearch
Don't forget the constant harassment from your bills asking, "when are you going to finally settle down?"
There could not be a more perfect way to explain how it feels than this. I’ve been stuck in my job search for my first big role as a recent grad for two whole years. I don’t know how else to explain to the people in my life how exhausting it is to come so close to securing *the* job so many times and still ending up back where I started somehow. Nothing and nobody has broken my heart more times than the back and forth of job searching.
I'm exhausted and the only reason I don't give up is because I can't. The stories I could tell... Where being ghosted is nowhere near the worst thing that's happened.
This is very clever, Kate Porter , and if you don't laugh, you cry, right? I have been a career coach for eight years and I've never seen a market this wild. It's brutal. The good news is I'm starting to see things turn a bit, and I think we'll have some momentum going into 2025. ????
The competition for marketing jobs is absolutely brutal right now. I've been encouraging unemployed marketing folks to either pivot or jump to a new ladder in a different field, even if only temporarily, because the bloodbath isn't over (is it just beginning?) and I don't believe things will ever return to "normal." That said, I enjoyed your post and I wish you the best of luck!
Kate, your post inspired me, though probably not in the way you hoped. I created a job search ad on my page: https://www.dhirubhai.net/posts/mcdanelmichele_jobseeking-jobhunt-jobsearch-activity-7257551481489248257-FsCj?utm_source=share&utm_medium=member_desktop
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4 个月I think the key is not to have a "relationship" with the job search, and to have no expectations whatsoever. It's more like buying a lottery ticket when you get your morning cup of coffee at Circle K. You buy a ticket every day with your coffee, and you hope that it pays off, but deep down you don't really expect it to. BUT ... if you buy enough tickets over a long enough time, you are bound to win - it's just a matter of time.