“Self-care is selfish.”
That’s what so many mothers and carers tell me.
They struggle with the idea of spending on themselves, feeling bad for having fun and not giving their everything to others. And often, wear themselves thin and struggle to do the things they want to do. We support clients at Mind Over Money? by reminding them of the importance of self-care. Shared for you, here's why treating yourself is not just okay, but essential for both you and others:
?? 1. Refilling Your Cup: As someone who constantly gives to others, your wellbeing is the source of your strength. Investing in self-care isn't selfish; it’s necessary to replenish the energy and patience you need to care for your loved ones effectively.
?? 2. Modelling Healthy Behaviour: By prioritising your own self-care, you set a powerful example for your children or those you care for. You teach them the importance of personal wellbeing, mental health and setting boundaries - lessons that are valuable throughout life.
?? 3. Maintaining Your Identity: In your role as a carer, it's easy to lose sight of your own identity and needs. Engaging in activities that you love and that make you feel good is essential to maintaining a sense of self.
?? 4. Strengthening Relationships: When you're mentally and emotionally healthy, your relationships benefit. Taking time for self-care can actually improve the quality of the care you provide and enhance your interactions with loved ones.
?? 5. Preventing Burnout: Carer burnout is real. Regular self-care acts as a preventive measure, helping you to stay mentally and physically healthy and reducing the risk of burnout.
?? I work with a lot of parents and carers through Mind Over Money and supporting them to turn these thoughts around feels so good. Remember, spending on self-care isn't a luxury; it’s an integral part of being a responsible human, as when you're at your best, you can give your best to those who depend on you.
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