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I'm sorry… As a Disabled person, why is it that “sorry” comes before we share, advocate, request, or speak up? We apologise for things we have no control over, it's as if we almost consider ourselves a burden for asking or sharing, as if we shouldn’t be asking in the first place. “Sorry, I need an adjustment…” “Sorry, I don’t understand, I’m AuDHD…” “Sorry, I’m Disabled…” But we aren’t a burden. So why are we apologising for our needs? Why are we apologising when we are being Disabled by Society? Things should be accessible. We should be able to share, ask for an adjustment, or request accessibility without guilt. We shouldn’t feel the need to apologise for being Disabled, for being who we are. Yet, it’s been ingrained in us. But I’m not going to apologise any longer, and neither should you! Instead, I’m going to say: “I need this adjustment to support me…” “As a neurodivergent person, I need this style of communication…” “I’m Disabled…” And I’m not sorry for it. Image Description: A Disabled by Society graphic featuring a stick figure meant to represent me. And before you say anything, I know I ain’t no stick figure, but they didn’t have any rhino shapes! Set on a dark background, the title reads: "Things as a Disabled person I will not apologise for". Below 12 statements with a clipart inside a colourful box, they read: ?Asking for accessibility - ?an accessibility symbol surrounded by people. 2. Asking for an adjustment - person at a desk, adjusting their computer. 3. Asking for clarity - two people, one appearing confused with question marks. 4. Challenging ableism - person shouting into a megaphone. 5. Sharing my needs - juggling symbols representing tasks and accommodations. 6. Language I use to identify - two people talking, with a speech bubble. 7. Setting boundaries - person holding a clock and documents, fending off demands. 8. Prioritising my wellbeing - person meditating with energy lines around them. 9. Saying no without guilt - person surrounded by speech bubbles, turning away. 10. Taking up space - person standing confidently with radiating energy. Advocating for myself and others - person speaking up in front of a crowd, with a "no" symbol. 12. Existing as I am - two people standing together, one with an arm around the other. #FridayFeeling #DisabilityInclusion #DisabledBySociety #Ableism