RMF COACHING

We have a lot of badass dudes keeping us safe across this whole nation. Proud to know a lot of them. #checkmate #checkyourego checkmate-group.com Checkmate Group

“You’re Welcome” The below is a brutal story… ?? TRIGGER WARNING ?? A different take on what it means … …to actually be thankful…. “The sky was the color of old iron as I stood on the edge of the bluff, staring down at the valley where settlers had planted their neat rows of crops. Smoke from their chimneys curled upward, faint against the horizon. It was Thanksgiving, or so they called it. ….I suppose we’re meant to feel thankful, too, though no one ever asks us what we think. Maybe they assume we’re grateful for the smallpox blankets, the treaties written in ink that vanishes when it rains…. ….or the way our rivers and spirits have been poisoned alike. Maybe they imagine we “celebrate” how they chopped up our land into tiny squares and told us to play pretend with fences and deeds. “Happy Thanksgiving!” they’d probably shout, smiling with mouths that once promised peace…. yet delivered guns, tears and death. But I’m not bitter. Not at all. I mean, who doesn’t love a good origin story? A group of pale, starving strangers wash up on our shores…. ….we save them from their own bad luck, and then —plot twist— they repay us by calling us “savages” and erasing us from their history books…. ….Classic. I can hear their laughter from here, their toasts to “freedom” and “prosperity.” They carve their turkey, the fat bird splayed out like a conquered thing, and pretend they know what it means to “give thanks.” But I’m not angry…. No, I’ll give thanks in my own way. I’ll thank the WIND for carrying our songs even when our voices are silenced. I’ll thank the EARTH for holding the memories of my people, the stories buried beneath the settler’s plow. I’ll thank the FIRE ?? for reminding me that even the smallest flame can burn away lies. And I’ll thank THEM—the ones down in the valley. I’ll thank them for teaching me that survival isn’t about what you’re given, but what you REFUSE to lose. So, Happy Thanksgiving, settlers. Enjoy your feast. I’ll be here, watching, remembering, and THRIVING. Thankful for what, you ask? Thankful that you underestimated me. It makes MY survival that much sweeter…. Ohhhhh n one more thing… You’re Welcome.” ???? Written by Trevor Martin #Thanksgiving #grateful #USA

Ever run your finger across the blade... .....of your battle axe? Does it ever feel dull at times.... ....maybe a little rusty... ...from hanging above the fireplace for waaaaay too long? Cobwebs entangling the handle a bit... as it sits... and sits and sits... Let me ask the warriors reading this ONE question - "Why do you train?" Why? To improve right? To eliminate your own self limiting beliefs.... Well, join Rebecca Schocker, Jennifer Jehl and myself as we disclose information on an in person event that will get you all of the above. An event that was MADE for warriors. An event that will have you walking away going... I need more of what I just experienced. Good news.... we got you. Join us on December 11 at 7 pm CST right here on LinkedIn as we take a deep dive into just what you will experience at our in-person event in Miami, Florida, Feb. 28-March 2nd. Grab a seat.... oh n make sure you bring your friends. You got 3 BADASSES coming right at ya, and this you don't wanna miss! As always- stay strong, stay hungry, just do and give no quarter. #leadership #networking #future #success #liveevent #emerge

I’ll leave you with a little something Somebody once told me. Warriors figure it out. So… Figure it out. ???? As always -stay strong, stay hungry, just do and give no quarter.?? ???????? #leadership #success #future.

Survivors of Suicide Loss Day - Today is for you. Losing someone is an indescribable pain and we want to encourage our military family to use the outdoors, travel, and recreation as pathways that can support your healing journey. Here are some ways to find comfort and connection today: ?? Take a nature walk or hike: Being in nature helps clear the mind and provides a sense of grounding. Bring along a journal to write down memories of your loved one or thoughts that come to you along the way. ?? Visit a meaningful or scenic place: Whether it’s a quiet beach, a mountain overlook, or a favorite spot of your loved one, being there can foster reflection and connection. ?? Try an outdoor activity: Kayaking, paddleboarding, or even just tossing a ball around can be a healthy way to channel emotions and create moments of peace. ?? Plan a trip in their honor: Organize a visit to a place they always wanted to go or somewhere you’ve always dreamed of. Dedicate the experience to their memory. ?? Gather your community: Organize a small group for an outdoor gathering or service project to support others who may also be grieving. The act of helping can be healing. ? Light a candle at sunset: Take a moment to reflect, meditate, or pray outdoors as you honor their light and memory. As a community, we understand the unique challenges military life can bring, and that’s why connection is so important. You are not alone. Reach out to someone who cares, whether it’s a friend, family member, or organization. Together, we can heal and grow stronger. If you or someone you know needs immediate help, please contact the Veterans Crisis Line by dialing 988, then press 1, or text 838255. You’re never alone. Visit https://lnkd.in/gsYc--Hu for Suicide Loss Assistance Let us know in the comments how you find healing or honor loved ones through travel, recreation, or outdoor experiences!

Painting on scars… It’s not easy for me… Blending them in… the feeling… all to real. Scars tell stories…. Some are visible—a jagged line, a faded mark, a patch of rough skin. Others are invisible—etched into the mind, carved into the heart…. …but all scars, whether seen or unseen, are the proof of a warrior’s journey. A warrior doesn’t live a life without wounds. To fight for something—whether it’s your family, your vision, or the human you know you’re capable of becoming—is to expose yourself to pain. You’ll face resistance… You’ll take blows… You’ll fail, fall, and break…. the truth of it all… scars are not signs of weakness. Scars are signs of strength. Every scar says, I survived. It says, I endured the battle and lived to fight again. It’s a reminder of the price you’ve paid to become the damn warrior you are today. It’s evidence that you’ve dared to stand up, take risks, and fight for something greater than yourself….. …and with each scar comes wisdom… You learn when to strike and when to stand firm. You learn what you’re truly capable of—and what really matters in the end. Scars may humble us, but they also sharpen us like you wouldn’t believe. They prepare us for BIGGER giants to come. So, wear em with pride… Own em… Show those f????????kers off… …why? Cuz … it let’s those obstacles that challenge you… know just exactly who TF you are and what you are made of. ???? As always - stay strong, stay hungry, just do and give no quarter?? ???????? #warriormindset #mentalhealth #leadership

They say it's lonely at the top and there's truth to that statement! I know many of you struggle to find your people or perhaps you are a loner like me on purpose It's hard to find people to connect with when you don't think like most It's hard to have a conversation with people that don't understand your mindset, I understand this all too well I wanted to create something special that would bring like-minded individuals together in one space An opportunity to network Build relationships Listen to 3 AMAZING COACHES share their knowledge Receive Individualized Coaching A roadmap to success Lasting Transformation and Offer an unforgettable experience ? It's my honor to take the stage with Jennifer Jehl and Trevor M. for our first IN-PERSON EMERGE EVENT!! I'm looking for only 5 people that want to upgrade their identity from ordinary to extraordinary. People that are thirsty for growth, understand the power of in-person networking and want to have an intimate experience with us for our 3 day in person retreat in Miami, FL! You only need to pay your deposit now to secure your spot. Space is limited and price goes up after the 15th of December ~Come see me in person ~Workout with me ~Learn from me and ~Party in Miami with us when it's still winter in most states? ? ? Link in comments #Events #networking #Miami #Coaching

I am officially an?International Coaching Federation (ICF)-credentialed Executive Coach! The journey to reach this milestone started in February 2024 when I began training with?Leverage for Leaders. I was committed to putting in the work to level up my skills, knowledge, and impact as an executive coach. Earning this credential isn’t just about checking a box—it’s about raising the bar on my skills to deliver even greater value to those I have the privilege to coach. The Associate Certified Coach (ACC) credential is just the beginning—I’m already focused on working toward my Professional Certified Coach (PCC) credential to further enhance my skills and deliver even greater value to my clients. This is just the beginning. To everyone who supported me—clients, mentors, friends, and family—THANK YOU! A special thanks to Karen Cappello, MCC, Jamie Davidoff, MCC, MA Leadership, and Scott Masciarelli, MCC, BCC with Leverage for Leaders- I deeply appreciate your leadership, patience, and support over the past 9 months. Page Hinerman, Leena Mendoza, M.S.,, Debra (Deb) Olejownik- You're next!

"The man you know lies within you is waiting to rise. But first, you have to face the truth of how you’ve been showing up. Here’s the shift I’ve seen in myself and the men I’ve worked with: ?? ? How it started: ??♂? Avoiding conflict, shutting down, or storming out. ?? Overusing substances to numb stress, pain, and self-doubt. ?? Struggling to hold deep connections, leading with fear or control. ?? Stuck in procrastination and self-sabotage, avoiding responsibility. ?? Feeling unseen, unworthy, and unsure of your purpose. ? How it’s going: ?? Facing challenges with vulnerability and setting healthy boundaries. ?? Taking care of your mind and body, letting go of harmful coping mechanisms. ?? Building deeper, more meaningful relationships by leading with love and truth. ?? Owning your time, stepping into leadership, and taking aligned action. ?? Living with clarity, confidence, and a sense of purpose. I know this shift because I’ve lived it. Thirteen years ago, I was a man drowning in low self-worth, numbing myself with substances, and sabotaging my closest relationships. I couldn’t hold space for others because I didn’t know how to hold space for myself. The man I wanted to be seemed like a dream too far out of reach. But something changed when I made the decision to lean into my wounds instead of running from them. I stopped blaming the world for my struggles and started taking radical ownership of my life. I’ve seen this same transformation in the men I work with. Dan came to me suppressing anger and feeling rejected at every turn, shutting down when relationships got hard. Now, he’s leading with vulnerability, expressing his truth, and setting clear boundaries that honour who he is. Matt carried the weight off abandonment and isolation, struggling to believe he was enough. Today, he’s forming meaningful friendships, reconnecting with himself, and building a life rooted in strength and connection. These men are stepping into the versions of themselves they’ve always known were there, waiting. The versions of themselves that lead their families, their relationships, and their communities with love, integrity, and power. Brother, the man within you is waiting for you to rise. You know he’s there. You feel him stirring every time you stop numbing, stop running, and face the truth of what’s keeping you stuck. The transformation doesn’t happen overnight, but it starts the moment you decide you’re ready to take that first step. To lean in instead of turning away. To meet yourself fully and walk the path to becoming him. Are you ready?"

POWER PLAY- come get some!! LEADERSHIP talked about from the WARRIOR'S perspective. CREW- This is the second issue of POWER PLAY. Truly honored to be sharing this with you and if you haven't subscribed to the newsletter, by all means let's GET TO IT!!! Within you will find valuable information on leading with SAVAGE INTENT. In today's world so many "leaders" refuse to step up their game and truly look at how they are impacting not only their teams, but the businesses they call home. This newsletter (both issues) takes a bit of a deep dive into how to step up that game, and gain understanding on just what individuals in the workforce today are looking for in a leader. So kick back and take a few moments to let POWER PLAY smack ya with a little SAVAGE INTENT!! #LEADERSHIP #SUCCESS #FUTURE