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We have successfully completed another emergency flight! A heartfelt thanks to the amazing victim assistance agents at DHS and DOJ (you know who you are). It's an honor to collaborate on survivor flights and serve in this meaningful way. Your work doesn't go unnoticed and I'm grateful! There is true freedom in these flights for victims and survivors who need this emergency met. When someone feels and says they are at risk of harm, a preventive method is to believe them! So these play a vital role in saving lives. To support more of these flights, please continue to shop, share, and donate, and reach out. With Love, Free To Fly www.free-to-fly.org

I've helped over 100 people get their LinkedIn accounts back. Why? Because at one point, I had to get mine back. Here are some harsh but real truths: -This space is their BBQ, their party, etc., and they decide who's invited and gets to stay here. -Your platform loyalty, your "authenticity," "value," "valuable content," e.g., how great you think you are/strangers have made you THINK you are MEANS NOTHING! -Follower count - LOL, MEANS LESS THAN NOTHING: When it happened to me, I was at 280K, yet I was talking and posting about things in 2020-2021 no one could safely talk about. -There's a defined process for getting an account back. It's characterized by clear thinking, 0.000 emotion, sticking to the facts, extreme patience yet persistency, and humility on the level of washing a stranger's feet. -The LinkedIn Trust and Safety Team(s): They are good people, really they are. But they operate from a script, by necessity, and most of the time, they deal with fakes, real violations, and generally bad people intending harm to good people. Hence, you will need extreme patience if you are one of the good people. -NO ONE misses you AS MUCH as you think OR AS MUCH as you miss being missed. Finally, the experience with my account and many others has taught me just how insignificant social media can and will become when you lose access. It taught me how popularity from complete strangers or 300 million views isn't real life. -Breaking bread with estranged family members - real life. -Unexpected forgiveness for being a mess - real life. -Helping someone over an addiction - real life.? -Being okay with "okay" - the very best life. The selfie below has a 0.000 value related to the post.

Want to help children in recovery from trafficking abuse to feel supported and loved for Easter? Consider mailing in items to our org and we will tag your business in appreciation after receiving items or donations for care boxes?? www.free-to-fly.org

“TREV…TREV…TREV… Hey I was praying for you the other day… Well honestly you and your soul… and I think I’m being told you should focus on your art ??? and ya know those motivational posts… that’s what I’m being told people wanna hear from you… that’s your mission your purpose if you will…less of this ya know vulgar and brash approach…Jesus would want that for you” - ……. …….. hmmm… Jesus would want that eh…. You mean the guy who dropped into a temple and whooped ?? cuz there were people within doing things he didn’t agree with so he threw em TF out? You mean the Jesus who ran with a crowd of 12 armed men ( remember when Peter cut that bros ear off when they came for Jesus?) … that Jesus? Hmmm think maybe he’d say this instead …. …you’re a glutton for punishment… Let’s call it like it is…. Most people today are gorging themselves on mediocrity… Feasting on comfort… Stuffing themselves with distraction, numbing out with entertainment, junk food, porn, cheap dopamine….anything to avoid the raw truth… You’re soft. You’re sedated…. …and worst of all, you F-ing know it. Society has fattened you up on passivity…. They’ve sold you the lie that a safe, predictable life is the goal. That grinding out a job you hate, coming home to a family that barely respects you, and coasting through life without a fight is somehow “winning.”?????? You think success is a bigger house, a nicer vehicle, a fancier vacation. GENTS - You think masculinity is buying a gun and growing a beard….hell maybe throw on some ink…ya know for good measure… WARRIORS- you think leadership is just talking about change…yet when it’s time to execute, when it’s time to sacrifice comfort, bleed for a mission, and stand for something…. where are you? Still sitting…STILL scrolling…STILL waiting for life to happen to you. People today aren’t hungry… …Not for challenge Not for purpose Not for the battle that turns normal people into warriors.. You don’t need another pep talk…. You need to starve the weakness… Cut off the lifeline to comfort…. Get f????????kin aggressive about your future. Surround yourself with those who REFUSE to be tame…. ….or stay where you are…. Keep consuming the same narrative… Keep waiting…. Keep being a glutton for the status quo…. ….Just don’t expect respect, legacy, or fire in your soul. Those belong to the REBELS who refuse to be fattened for slaughter. - sincerely …… Mic ?? drop - Jesus exit stage left… ???? Yeah… I think that’s maybe more like what Jesus would say to me… or want me to talk to the masses about …while I own it myself… WAIT TREV…. Cmon now bro what are you doing?! This is the exact opposite of what we want you to do… ?? good??? (dropping the peace sign for all the ???? haters… wouldn’t want you thinking I worship the other guy?? ?? ya know ) As always - awww hell you know the rest… #….sh!t I don’t even know what to hashtag on this…

The Warrior Writer… and a brother to me… …some men write stories….others live them first. The warrior I’m talking about is a force of nature…an Army veteran who has walked the edge, seen the world through the eyes of a soldier, and turned those experiences into life lessons and a guide on how to help others. When you sit down and really get to know John Kerkhoff, PMP, CPLC you will find that his words don’t just tell stories; they command attention, blending tactical precision with deep, soul-shaking themes of honor, sacrifice, and survival. but truly for me what stood out the most…. it’s not just about the battlefield or the books. This man lives to serve. Whether it’s through mentorship, leadership, or simply being a rock for those who need him, his life is a testament to the warrior’s code… Strength, Honor, and Purpose. Where the status quo seems to dominate all around, he stands apart….crafting universes, guiding others, and proving that TRUE warriors don’t just fight battles; they HELP others fight theirs. John, thank you for joining me on WAY OF THE WARRIOR, the mini comic book series over the last week, and future projects in store for everyone. You sir, are a brother who I admire and love. ???? CREW- hit the link below and give this one a watch. We promise you, you won’t regret it, and hey while you are there… leave us some feedback and hit the subscribe button!!!! Wouldn’t want you to miss out on future episodes! As always- stay strong, stay hungry, just do and give no quarter?? ???????? #leadership #veterans #unity #future

Women… let’s talk about em.. ….do we celebrate them enough ? Here’s my take on this day… F????????k the flowers and the soft speeches… Instead… I’ll raise a PINT ?? to the WARRIORS the BUILDERS the REBELS the FIGHTERS the ones who REFUSE to play small. To the ones BORN and FORGED in the ?? FIRE… Let EACH day be about the women who break barriers, build empires, and stand unshaken in the face of THE GREATEST OF GIANTS. The ones who lead with power, love with depth, and REFUSE to be anything but unapologetically themselves. To the mothers raising the next generation of WARRIORS. To the CEOs and entrepreneurs rewriting the rules. To the women who show up, stand tall, and NEVER back down. You are not delicate... F????????k NO ?????? You are DANGEROUS!! So a TOAST TO YOU - may you always - Own your strength! Claim your right!… and never, ever f????????kin wait for permission. As always - stay strong, stay hungry, just do and give no quarter?? ???????? ?????? this post is dedicated to my wife Jamie, and my two beautiful daughters Aubree and Charlee Quinn. I love you all so damn much. #unstoppable #InternationalWomensDay #leadership #power #future #equality

My side kick, ace duece, brother, a mentor, the one dude who can deal with me and has known me for nearly 30 yrs! Roughly 30 years ago I walked into prison and I met Najee for the first time! He was a muslim black man and I was a lost, prideful, hateful and discontent skin head! He still showed me compassion! He always said “brother you can play prison or get ready for the rest of your life!’ I laughed cause that place was my life, I was definitely playing prison! Today I get the opportunity to say that same thing to those who are like I was! I get to work beside my friend and mentor! I get tk see Gods blessings! God has given me a chance at life many times over and im truly blessed to have the life God allows me to live today! Words can never express what this picture means and the depth of the laughter! Thank you Summer Applegate?? for being such a great friend and amazing woman of God! And a HUGE thank you to Trevor M. for drawing and capturing the most amazing moment between me and Najee! We are both speechless!

“Fortune favors… …the ones… Who don’t f????????k with me.” This “death” coin ?? from ZEROFOXTROT, given to me by my wife, sits right by our family’s photograph in my office… It’s one of my favorite things in that office actually. A reminder … that unfortunately sometimes I need. A reminder that I don’t back down on what I stand for or believe in just because it’s unpopular with the “general crowd”… or because those critics choose to flap gum in my general direction… Yeah… back down… hmmmm .. nah … Get LOUDER…. ???? …. Yup. Now, in this process I have come across some actual badasses that put my efforts to shame. This leads me to my second favorite thing in my office now! A set of coasters made by a true blue MONSTER SLAYER - Jessica Owen. Jessica and her husband Ben Owen are the founders of We Fight Monsters … an org. that pushes back against human trafficking…. that provides HOPE in this dark AF world. These BADASS coasters are featured in the video. I encourage you to connect with these warriors and grab yourself a set. They are professionally made and will last a lifetime time… (unless your 18 month old decides to use one for a hockey puck ??) CREW- take it from me, you need these warriors on your roster… if you don’t have 40 bucks to spare, maybe take the time to ask them how you can further the cause. … here’s why … those monsters you once feared were under your bed… aren’t real … they are actually outside the house ?? but you can bet your ass they watch it… until the time is right… then the monster you will face is an empty bed… where your child used to be. yeah… let that sink in. Jessica Owen and Ben Owen, thank you for what you do. See yall soon! ???????? As always, stay strong, stay hungry, just do and give no quarter?? ???????? #leadership #family #love #hope #future

CREATIVITY in your Job Search is about more than just getting noticed; it's about effectively Communicating your value and readiness to Deliver Results. Mastering today’s job market requires a mix of creativity and strategic savvy, especially in getting past ATS and impressing hiring managers. ?????? ???????? ???? ?????????????? ???????? ?????? ????????? 1) ATS-Friendly Creativity ?Tailor your resume with a clean format and industry-relevant keywords. —Highlight your unique skills in a way that’s both creative and compliant with automated screening systems. 2) Use Action Verbs and Show Results ?Start bullet points with action verbs like “boosted,” “crafted,” and “streamlined.” —For example, “Boosted sales by 30% by implementing targeted social media advertising strategies and enhancing customer engagement through personalized promotions.” 3) Digital and Personal Branding ?Build an engaging online portfolio or blog to showcase your professional achievements. —Platforms like LinkedIn, Behance, or a personal website can dramatically illustrate your capabilities and achievements. 4) Network Creatively ?Extend your networking beyond traditional venues by participating in or organizing workshops, webinars, and discussions. —Use social media to engage with industry leaders and share your professional content, increasing your visibility. 5) Storytelling in Applications ?Narrate your career journey focusing on challenges overcome and lessons learned. —This makes your application memorable and demonstrates your growth mindset. 6) Innovate Your Job Search Methods ?Don’t just stick to traditional applications; explore freelance gigs, internships, or volunteering as potential pathways to full-time roles. —Each experience builds your professional narrative and skill set. ??A creative job search is about standing out in the crowd and effectively navigating modern hiring practices, including ATS. Video credit goes to the respective owner (s), #socialmedia #creativity #resume #jobinterviews #art #artist #productivity #opportunities #whatinspiresme