Restorative Justice Institute of Oklahoma

The words we use shape how we see justice, accountability, and healing. In restorative justice, we move away from labels like “offender” and “victim” because harm is more complex than a single act. No one experiences violence for the first time by committing it. Harm is cyclical. People who experience harm often go on to transfer it, sometimes without even realizing it. By saying “Person Who Transferred Harm”, we acknowledge responsibility without reducing a person to their worst moment. By saying “Person Who Experienced Harm”, we recognize the impact of harm without limiting someone to a fixed identity. Justice isn’t just about consequences. It’s about healing. Swipe through to learn why language matters. #RestorativeJustice #Healing #Accountability #Justice #CommunityCare #TraumaInformed #LanguageMatters #Leadership

Meet our RJIOK Board Member, Petra Jordan! Petra is a therapist and owner of Integrated Renegade, who roots their work in restorative conversations to foster healing. Their specialty in therapy and community care is essential to creating spaces where people feel heard, valued, and supported. We’re grateful for Petra’s leadership in making restorative justice a reality for all. Swipe through to learn more about Petra and their impact! ?? #BoardMember #RestorativeJustice #Tulsa #Oklahoma #CommunityLeadership

Ever had workplace tension that just… lingered? Avoiding it or calling it out isn’t the only option. Restorative justice offers a way to actually address conflict, build trust, and create a healthier work environment. RJIOK provides trainings for individuals, teams, and organizations to help workplaces navigate conflict in a way that strengthens relationships instead of breaking them. Want to bring restorative practices to your team? Email [email protected] to learn more. #RestorativeJustice #WorkplaceCulture #ConflictResolution #Trust #Leadership #Accountability #Communication Xavier Graves

Oklahoma’s public education system is at a turning point, and community input is critical. At the B.O.O.K. Club Listening Session, we’re bringing the community together to talk about student performance, school equity, and safer learning environments. These conversations shape real solutions, and we want to hear from those who care about education. ?? Tuesday, April 1st ?? 6:00-8:00 PM ?? SOKC Public Library - Community Room in OKC ?? Free dinner provided Your insights matter. RSVP now: www.bit.ly/aokbookclub #EducationMatters #CommunityVoices #SchoolEquity #Leadership #PublicSchools #StudentSuccess

Restorative justice isn’t just for professionals. It’s for everyone. You don’t have to be a lawyer, educator, or policymaker to make an impact. Every day, in classrooms, workplaces, and personal relationships, we all have the opportunity to practice listening, accountability, and repair. How do you integrate restorative practices into your daily life? Drop your comment below ?? #RestorativeJustice #Accountability #Leadership #CommunityCare #Healing #Justice Xavier Graves Rev. Dr. (Tamara) Celeste Lebak, PCC

Better conversations build stronger connections. Try asking one of these questions today. #RestorativeJustice #Leadership #Listening #CommunityCare #Trust #Communication #Healing

There’s a difference... Punishment reacts. Restorative justice listens, acknowledges, and works toward repair. We define calm as the ability to respond to triggers in your environment in less automatic and extreme ways. True accountability isn’t about making people suffer. It’s about creating the conditions where change is possible. We can not hold others accountable if we don't hold ourselves accountable first. The next time you come across conflict, annoyance, or harm... take a moment to pause and listen. Intentional responses create stronger relationships and real solutions. #RestorativeJustice #Accountability #Leadership #CommunityCare #Healing #Justice Xavier Graves

Thank you to everyone who joined our info session to learn about leading restorative circles for youth at the Tulsa County Family Center for Juvenile Justice. These spaces give young people a chance to be heard, to repair harm, and to build a better future. The next steps for volunteers are simple. Complete fingerprinting and a background check, attend the volunteer orientation, and finish PREA training. If you weren’t able to make the session, you can still get involved. Email [email protected] for more details. #RestorativeJustice #YouthLeadership #CommunityImpact #HealingCenteredCare #Tulsa #Oklahoma

Restorative justice is built on the leadership of women. They’ve created pathways for healing, held communities together, and led the fight for justice in ways that often go unseen. Their contributions aren’t new, and neither is their impact. Women’s history is restorative justice history. The best way to honor it is through action. Keep learning with women. Keep showing up for women! #RestorativeJustice #WomensHistoryMonth #Leadership #CommunityCare #Healing #Accountability

Justice isn’t about control. It’s about care. Restorative justice has always been part of Black history, rooted in healing, accountability, and community. Black communities have led the way in creating alternatives to harm and punishment. As we close Black History Month, we ask you to continue this legacy by engaging in restorative practices with us. #restorativejustice #blackhistorymonth #healing #communitycare #oklahoma