This is for all the dads out there.
Here are some thoughts on "male loneliness" and tips to deal with it.
I just read an article about what is being called the "male loneliness epidemic".
I'm not sure if it's an epidemic, but the article resonated with me.
As a dad and entrepreneur (dadpreneur) I have felt some of what's described in this article (https://lnkd.in/eSFRWS5h) but also have found that I'm not on an island.
Funny side note, I actually live on an island and just brought together a group of dadpreneurs for the REBL Dads Gathering on Necker Island, so good things do happen on islands!
If you're a dad, here are some interesting takeaways from the article and some tips I've found useful:
??"The reasons why some men feel worthless is because of a lack of friendships, especially among fathers, the experts say."
?? "...many fathers are having a hard time finding connection and friendship — and this applies to both fathers who work remotely from home and those who go into a place of work every day."
??"Men who express their vulnerability, which is usually necessary to form close friendships, are often afraid they will be viewed as weak, or less than a man. It’s a stigma that may be outdated, but one that sadly still exists."
So if you're feeling some or all of this what can you do?
Here are some tips:
?? Find a safe place where you can be vulnerable and share with other dads. And make sure you SHARE. Don't preach or tell people what to do or what they did wrong. Share your experiences so others can hopefully learn from them.
?? Know that you aren't tied to what your father did, or didn't do, and that you can create your own path.
??It's OK to focus on being a better father. When you do you become a better spouse, partner, role model, and of course dad. Like the pre-flight safety announcement says; "put on your own mask before helping others."
Again, I'm not sure if we have an epidemic on our hands but I do know that being a dad can be lonely and that it's OK to look for help.
What's your best tip for helping dads be better at fatherhood and entrepreneurship?
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