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???????????? ???? ???????????? ????????????????? ?? ?????? ??????. ?? But I turned that fear into my superpower — and you can too. ?? Next month alone, I’m speaking at 13 events, including the University of California, Berkeley, Pear VC, HBS Women's Association, Plug and Play Tech Center, and Ubiquity Ventures. In the past few months, I’ve spoken at Amazon AWS GenAI, Product Leadership Summit, Maven, Guild, and more — some paid, some unpaid; all on topics I deeply care about and have knowledge of and to the audiences that are eager for my thoughts. Now here's the truth: English is my second language. ?? I came to the U.S. for undergrad, and early in my career, public speaking felt impossible. I vividly remember my first college speech class ?? — it took me dozens of tries to deliver a single paragraph. I wasn’t good. Not even close. ?? But I had two things: ?? An obsession with growth ?? A commitment to excellence I wanted to share my ideas with the world — and I refused to let fear or language barriers stop me. ? Today, I give keynotes to packed rooms. It feels energizing, even effortless. But behind that “ease” is 20+ years of hard work and hard-won lessons. Here are 5 lessons that helped me become a confident, powerful speaker, especially for those who feel like they’re not “naturals”: ??? 1.?????'?? ?????? ?????????? ?????????????? ?????????????? (or any language)- It's about clear ideas. People don’t remember grammar; they remember impact. Be clear! Be authentic! Say something that matters. ??♀? 2. ???????????? ?????? ???????????? - use them as fuel. Even the best speakers get butterflies ??. Don’t suppress the nerves — channel them into energy and presence. ?? 3. ???????????????????? ?????????? ???????????? - No one’s born a great speaker. You become one by showing up, over and over again. Speak in meetings, on panels, in small rooms or big ones — every rep counts. ?? 4. ???????????? ???????????????? - Watch it. Learn. Grow. It’s awkward — but incredibly effective. You’ll catch your filler words, pacing, and habits that you’d never notice otherwise. ?? 5. ???????? ??????????????, ?????? ???????? ?????????? - People only remember your stories. Data informs. Stories move. Research shows that people forget data but remember the stories. ?What's been your experience with public speaking? ?Do you fear it or are you fueled by it? ?? If you've gotten better with public speaking over time, share your experiences with others below, so they can learn from you. ?? Share your reaction to this conversation and experiences with public speaking below. #publicspeaking #keynote