Phaneuf Funeral Homes and Crematorium

Funerals aren't fun, convenient, or comfortable—but that's not the point. They're powerful opportunities to offer support, show respect, and provide closure, even when words feel inadequate. Your presence, no matter how brief or simple, sends a meaningful message: the deceased mattered, and those grieving are not alone. If you’re ever wondering, “Should I go to the funeral?”—the answer is almost always yes. The inconvenience or discomfort pales compared to the impact of being there for someone else. Because funerals aren't just about saying goodbye—they're about supporting the living. Learn more in our post.

Many people think end-of-life planning is only for older adults, but the truth is, death can happen at any age. While discussing mortality can be uncomfortable, it’s also an act of courage, vulnerability, and love. Planning ahead doesn’t require a detailed plan—just starting the conversation is enough. Simple steps like deciding between burial or cremation, sharing memorial service ideas, or considering a legacy project can make a big difference. Avoiding the topic of death may feel safer, but it often leaves loved ones unprepared and struggling when the time comes. Embracing these discussions can reduce the stigma, provide clarity, and help families feel more at ease with the inevitable. By sharing your wishes, you offer your family a gift: the ability to focus on celebrating your life and supporting each other, rather than navigating difficult decisions during grief. At Phaneuf Funeral Homes and Crematorium, we’re here to support you with compassion and understanding. Taking the first step today can bring peace of mind to you and your loved ones. Let’s make this important conversation part of your legacy. Learn more in our full blog post.

Phaneuf Funeral Homes and Crematorium has an outstanding full time opportunity for an energetic customer service and administrative associate in our Manchester location. Our ideal candidate will be very comfortable dealing with the public on the phone and in person; have strong computer and communication skills and a working knowledge of Office 365, SharePoint, and Teams; be familiar with database software; and enjoys working in group settings as part of a committed team. We are looking for someone with a very strong attention to detail and high sense of urgency who can quickly prioritize tasks and is flexible to adapt to changing schedules. Learn more.

Phaneuf Funeral Homes and Crematorium has an outstanding full-time opportunity for an energetic customer service and administrative associate in our Manchester location. Our ideal candidate will be very comfortable dealing with the public on the phone and in person; have strong computer and communication skills and a working knowledge of Office 365, SharePoint, and Teams; be familiar with database software; and enjoys working in group settings as part of a committed team. We are looking for someone with a very strong attention to detail and high sense of urgency who can quickly prioritize tasks and is flexible to adapt to changing schedules: https://lnkd.in/eWvNnrfc

Death positivity is reshaping how we approach a subject that has long been shrouded in silence and stigma. This emerging movement encourages us to view death as a natural and transformative part of life rather than an end to be feared. In our communities, especially in places like New Hampshire and Vermont, we are witnessing a cultural shift where conversations about mortality are no longer confined to hushed whispers but are being openly discussed in homes, community gatherings, and even in creative spaces such as literature and art. The focus of death positivity is not on the sorrow of loss but on honoring the full spectrum of life. Families are finding new ways to commemorate their loved ones by celebrating their unique stories, personal passions, and the legacies they leave behind. By planning ahead and embracing honest dialogue about end-of-life wishes, we can ease the burden on those left behind and ensure that every individual’s story is told with compassion and authenticity. At Phaneuf Funeral Homes and Crematorium, we are dedicated to supporting our community through every step of life’s journey. Our approach reflects the evolving attitudes towards death, blending traditional values with innovative practices that empower individuals to live fully and prepare thoughtfully for the inevitable. We believe that by embracing death positivity, we not only demystify death but also open up new possibilities for healing, community connection, and a richer celebration of life. Learn more.

In New Hampshire, there are no specific state laws governing the scattering of cremated remains, which offers considerable flexibility for families during a difficult time. This latitude means that whether you choose to scatter remains on private property, in dedicated cemetery gardens, by airplane, or at sea, it is important to approach the process with thoughtful consideration for public sensibilities and applicable federal regulations. For example, when scattering by airplane, federal aviation laws apply, and the remains must be removed from their container to prevent any potential hazards. Similarly, scattering at sea must adhere to restrictions outlined in the Federal Clean Water Act, such as limitations on distance from shore and prohibitions against using non-decomposable materials. Even when considering scattering on public lands like state parks or national sites, it is advisable to check with the relevant management authorities to ensure compliance with local regulations. Ultimately, while New Hampshire law provides a range of options for memorializing a loved one, using common sense and respecting the environment and community remain paramount throughout the process. Learn more:

Talking about end-of-life planning isn’t easy, but it’s one of the most meaningful conversations you can have with your loved ones. To help make the process clearer and less overwhelming, Phaneuf Funeral Homes and Crematorium hosts complimentary?Lunch and Learn seminars—a relaxed, informative gathering where you can get the answers you need while enjoying a meal on us.

Talking about end-of-life planning isn’t easy, but it’s one of the most meaningful conversations you can have with your loved ones. To help make the process clearer and less overwhelming, Phaneuf Funeral Homes and Crematorium hosts complimentary?Lunch and Learn seminars—a relaxed, informative gathering where you can get the answers you need while enjoying a meal on us.

In order to support our families even more, Phaneuf has partnered with the estate settlement experts at?Alix?to provide you with helpful guidance and resources as you get started. Alix is the first and only comprehensive, expert-led service that handles the entire estate settlement process for families. From discovering assets and closing accounts, to negotiating debts and helping sell the house, Alix can handle it all. With a combination of cutting edge technology and human led support, they ensure accuracy and transparency at every step. Learn more:

When an American flag becomes worn and tattered, it deserves a respectful retirement. At Phaneuf Funeral Homes and Crematorium, we’ve made it simple—just drop your retired flag in the designated mailbox at our Manchester or Boscawen locations, and we’ll ensure it’s properly retired according to the U.S. Flag Code. Since launching our flag retirement program, we’ve retired over 1,000 flags with dignity, using our crematorium for a respectful farewell. For veterans, we also offer the option to include a retired flag in their cremation, a meaningful tribute to their service. Honoring the flag means knowing how to properly display and retire it. If you have a flag in need of retirement, we’re here to help. Learn more.