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If you have a relationship and want to be balanced about how you approach it, do not think that this person will always support you in the way you want, never get on your nerves, always be incredibly loving and fair, and never neglect you or say a mean thing. By doing so you set yourself up for disappointment because you have an unrealistic expectation of how relationships operate. In any relationship, there are as many negatives as there are positives. If you can be mindful enough not to place extra pressure on this person (especially those you are close to) to deliver according to your standards and one-sided expectations, you will fare much better. Just let them be who they are. Make the choice to love them as they are and for what they bring to your life instead of condemning them for who they aren’t and how they are not meeting your needs. This is just a reminder to be thankful for the person you are in relationship with. It must also be said that if your partner consistently brings more negatives than positives into your life, you may want to think about why you are still with this person. Either look for a significant need your partner fulfills that you have not been appropriately thankful for—or let them go. #balancedlife #howtofindbalance #manageexpectations #dualityoflife #duality #lifeiswhatyoumakeit #reflection #lightanddark #yinyang #yingtomyyang #happinessbegins #happysad #twosidestothesamecoin #twosidestoeverystory

When you count your blessings, remember to count yourself. When you share love with others, remember to share love with yourself as well. Loving yourself is an essential part of loving others because everything in others is a reflection of what exists within you. So if you love yourself for all that you are, you will be better able to love others for who they are. #happinessu #aliceinoue #yourlifeyourway #ownyourpower #knowyourpower #loveyourself #loveyourself?? #youareloved #youareloved?? #knowyourworth #knowyourworth?? #selfappreciation #selfappreciationpost #youareperfectasyouare #youareperfect #iappreciateyou

If you choose to complain about your life and the people in it, the Universe will lovingly respond by giving you more to complain about. On the other hand, if you look for what is going right, you have a much better chance of seeing and experiencing the positive aspects of your life. The Universe responds in line with Universal principles. If you are not appreciative now for who you are and what IS going on (that's good), why would you get more appreciated? The more joy you can find today, the more joyful you will be tomorrow. #ego #humility #stayhumble #practice #happinessu #aliceinoue #behumbleandkind #stayteachable #dropyourdefenses #losetheego #losetheegoamigo

If you are going through an emotional hardship of the heart - or a physical hardship of the body, remember this. Your body heals, your wounds heal, and your ego heals. So also will your heart heal. Time is your best friend. Just keep your focus on what is good in your life. Keep looking for and appreciating the small things, and before you know it the light of life will appear, and happiness will gradually fill your heart once again. SHARE if you know someone is going through a rough time. #selfappreciation #selfappreciationpost #righttime #rightplacerighttime #divinetiming #divineorder #letgoofthestruggle #strugglefree #whystruggle #freeyourmind #inlovewithlife #gratefulforlife #changeyourmind #wiseteachers

It happens to everyone – at some point, we have to pack up what we’ve learned and move from the familiar to the unfamiliar. If you are in the midst of “moving” and are feeling a bit wobbly, remember that when saying good bye to safety and foundations that don’t support you, it doesn’t take long before you find new security. Walk the path of transition with certainty and you most certainly will find yourself exactly where you need to be. Your whole life has prepared you for what lies ahead. #balancedlife #howtofindbalance #manageexpectations #dualityoflife #duality #lifeiswhatyoumakeit #reflection #lightanddark #yinyang #yingtomyyang #happinessbegins #happysad #twosidestothesamecoin #twosidestoeverystory

Collectively, it’s a reminder to rise above our differences with others and share love, gifts and heartfelt words. Universally, it’s a day honoring the light in our solar system. Every year, following the darkest day of Solstice on the 21st, the Sun appears to stop for three days, only to resume movement on Christmas morning as it returns sunlight back to the world. As the days get brighter in the Northern hemisphere, the opposite is happening in the Southern hemisphere where the days get shorter. The Universal theme is one of balance. As such, Christmas can initiate a movement towards balance, opening up the opportunity for transformation, shifting perspectives and renewed hope. May this day be filled with deep gratitude for all that is – the dark and the light, the joys and the sorrows, and the ups and the downs exactly as it is reflected throughout this magnificent universe we are inextricably a part of. Just as our inner Sun expands as the outer Sun progresses, let this be the beginning of renewal, growth and peace for you. Merry Christmas.

If you want to control your wealth, learn to control your emotions. To illustrate the connection, imagine losing half your retirement after a sharp drop in the stock market and how emotionally "down" you would likely get about it. On the flip side imagine winning the largest jackpot ever and how emotionally “up” you would be. This same principle works in reverse - when your emotions fluctuate, your ability to accumulate wealth fluctuates. To accumulate wealth, create balanced and sound strategies that override your emotions. You can make money off of strategies, not off of emotions #happinessu #aliceinoue #yourlifeyourway #ownyourpower #knowyourpower #authorofyourownstory #dowhatyouwant #dowhatyougottado #dowhatyoulove? #authority #innerauthority #followyourheart #followyourbliss #followyourdream #ownyourchoices #ownyourchoicesownyourlife #youcreateyourownreality #bemindful #imagination #meditation #alignment #focus #prepave #useyourimagination #changeyourthoughts #changeyourlife

It's always easy to remember what went wrong. However, is it "fair" to just look at one-side and call that reality? Have the wisdom and consciousness to affirm what is right. ? Where are you successful? ? Where are you productive? ? Where are you making a difference? ? Where are you being supported? Let the awareness of what is true rule your day. #happinessis #happinessiskey #happinesscomesfromwithin #happinessiseverywhere #happinesscoach #happinessquote#liveyourownlife #liveyourownway #liveyourownadventure #liveyourowndream

If you want to feel better about anything in your life, stop comparing. Stop comparing what is, to what was. Stop comparing your fantasies to your reality. Stop comparing where you think you should be in contrast to where you are. Stop comparing where others are, and only notice where you don't measure up. Instead, look at where you are without comparison. The Law of Relativity states that everything just "is" until you compare it to something else. When you can find the courage to focus on everything you absolutely are, you'll find yourself drawing in opportunities and magnificence into your life beyond compare. It's a simple mind shift you have the power to master. #happinessu #aliceinoue #yourlifeyourway #ownyourpower #knowyourpower #loveyourself #loveyourself?? #youareloved #youareloved?? #knowyourworth #knowyourworth?? #selfappreciation #selfappreciationpost #youareperfectasyouare #youareperfect #iappreciateyou

No matter what you experience – whether it be career uncertainty, heartbreak, a betrayal, a health challenge or financial hardship, life’s challenges are difficult if you don’t know how to process what you are going through. Your best strategy is to keep your focus on the blessings in your life and look for something to be thankful for. Life brings a full spectrum of challenging events and emotions, but when you accept that you are in the right place (even though it’s hard), and look for what’s good, you will naturally attract more good to support you. You are simply at an uncomfortable juncture moving towards something better. For your highest purpose, things need to change, and so they are. Trust that everything is coming together. Just take it moment by moment. #selfappreciation #selfappreciationpost #righttime #rightplacerighttime #divinetiming #divineorder #letgoofthestruggle #strugglefree #whystruggle #freeyourmind #inlovewithlife #gratefulforlife #changeyourmind #wiseteachers