Sometimes, it can be difficult to empathize with your partner, particularly when there is conflict or different values, beliefs, or preferences. This is known as an empathy gap, which can lead to misunderstanding, frustration, and resentment. To handle these gaps in your relationship, recognize and accept that you and your partner are unique individuals; even if you don’t agree or like everything about each other, you can still respect and appreciate your differences. Also, be curious and open-minded; learn more about your partner’s background, experiences, motivations, and goals. Try to see things from their perspective and focus on common ground and shared values - the reasons why you love and chose your partner. If needed, seek help from a therapist or counselor to help you communicate better and resolve conflicts in a healthy way.