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Here's how you can handle difficult conversations with your boss.

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Having to discuss difficult topics with your boss can be daunting. It's a situation that many dread, but it's also an opportunity to demonstrate your professionalism and problem-solving abilities. Whether you're addressing concerns about workload, seeking a raise, or providing feedback on management style, the key to a successful outcome lies in how you manage the conversation. Energy management, the skill of regulating your emotional and mental stamina, plays a crucial role here. By applying energy management principles, you can approach these conversations with clarity, calmness, and a constructive mindset.

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Camilla Mattsson

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1 Prepare Thoroughly

Before initiating a tough talk with your supervisor, preparation is essential. Take time to clearly define the purpose of the conversation and the outcomes you hope to achieve. Consider your boss's perspective and anticipate their concerns or objections. By preparing responses and solutions in advance, you'll feel more confident and in control. It's also helpful to practice your talking points to ensure your message is conveyed effectively and respectfully.

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Once I had a tough talk with my manager about performance metrics to understand the reasons for a decline. In my experience having a humble approach is really important to avoid frictions in between the conversation. One thing I found useful was to take ownership and take notes of the AOI's to avoid the same talks again

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2 Choose Timing

The timing of your conversation can significantly influence its success. Look for a moment when your boss is least likely to be distracted or stressed. Avoid busy periods such as the end of the fiscal year or right before a major project deadline. Requesting a private meeting at a time that suits them shows respect for their schedule and increases the likelihood they'll be receptive to your points.

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3 Stay Positive

Maintaining a positive tone throughout the conversation is crucial. Start by expressing appreciation for your boss's time and any positive aspects of your working relationship. Focus on solutions rather than problems and use "I" statements to communicate your perspective without casting blame. This approach fosters a collaborative atmosphere, making it easier to navigate through the difficult parts of the discussion.

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4 Listen Actively

Active listening is just as important as speaking clearly. Pay close attention to your boss's responses and body language. Show that you value their perspective by nodding, maintaining eye contact, and asking clarifying questions. By demonstrating that you're engaged and considerate, you build trust and openness, paving the way for a more productive dialogue.

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5 Follow Up

After the conversation, follow up with a summary of what was discussed and any agreed-upon actions. This can be done via email or a formal document, depending on the nature of the conversation. It serves as a record of your discussion and shows that you are committed to resolving the issue at hand. It also keeps both parties accountable for any changes or decisions that were made.

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Camilla Mattsson

International Senior Director | Leading People in Med Tech Companies | Board Member
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It is very important for both parties to document what has agreed, so that progress can be measured, especially if the discussion has taken place in order to change the existing situation. As there might be a lot of emotions involved, it is good to document and follow up on facts.

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6 Reflect and Learn

Finally, take time to reflect on the conversation and evaluate its outcomes. Consider what went well and what could be improved for future discussions. Learning from each experience enhances your communication skills and prepares you better for the next challenging conversation. Remember, each difficult talk is an opportunity for personal and professional growth.

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7 Here’s what else to consider

This is a space to share examples, stories, or insights that don’t fit into any of the previous sections. What else would you like to add?

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Perservere. You have to have tough conversations with your superiors because it provides at the very least visibility on your behalf and accountability for leadership. Unfortunately, considering the biased power dynamic it may be difficult to get to the end result you are seeking when having these conversations and can put you in the vulnerable position of being targeted for retaliation. Nevertheless, you speaking out on issues will empower you to recognize your own value and place in the workforce. It will also trailblaze for others who follow and give you the confidence you need to take the neccessary actions to improve your state with or without the assistance of your leadership. Always be working towards your next steps, regardless.

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1 Prepare Thoroughly

2 Choose Timing

3 Stay Positive

4 Listen Actively

5 Follow Up

6 Reflect and Learn

7 Here’s what else to consider

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