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You’re a mentor and your mentee is struggling with emotional intelligence. How can you help them?

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As a mentor, you want to help your mentee grow and succeed in their career. But what if your mentee is struggling with emotional intelligence, or the ability to understand and manage their own and others' emotions? Emotional intelligence is crucial for building relationships, communicating effectively, and coping with stress and challenges. Here are some ways you can help your mentee develop their emotional intelligence and become a better professional and leader.

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Dr.Aneish Kumar

Ex MD & Country Manager The Bank of New York - India | Non-Executive Director on Corporate Boards | Risk Evangelist I…
Patricia Dos Santos Oliveira

Inteligência Emocional & Thought Leadership | Mentora | Analista Comportamental| Comunica??o | Empreendedora Social |…

1 Assess their strengths and weaknesses

The first step to improve emotional intelligence is to identify where your mentee needs to work on. You can use various tools, such as self-assessments, feedback surveys, or 360-degree reviews, to help your mentee evaluate their emotional intelligence skills. These skills include self-awareness, self-regulation, motivation, empathy, and social skills. You can also observe your mentee's behavior and interactions with others and give them constructive feedback on their areas of improvement.

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Dr.Aneish Kumar

Ex MD & Country Manager The Bank of New York - India | Non-Executive Director on Corporate Boards | Risk Evangelist I AI Enthusiast | LinkedIn Top voice | Strategic Growth and Governance Architect | C-suite mentor
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As a mentor, supporting a mentee struggling with emotional intelligence involves ...... 1. fostering a safe, non-judgmental environment for them to explore and understand their emotions. 2 by encouraging self-reflection to increase their self-awareness. Introduce techniques for identifying and articulating emotions, and model empathetic listening and communication skills. 3 Sharing resources like books or workshops on emotional intelligence. 4 Without being critical provide constructive feedback on their progress 5. Last but not the least celebrate improvements, however small, to boost their confidence and encourage continued growth in emotional intelligence.

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Patricia Dos Santos Oliveira

Inteligência Emocional & Thought Leadership | Mentora | Analista Comportamental| Comunica??o | Empreendedora Social | Educa??o, Equidade e Lideran?a para Mulheres | Cofundadora @ Mulheres que Agregam
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In my mentoring practice, fostering self-social awareness and self-management proves essential for mentees struggling with Emotional Intelligence. Utilizing tools like the Wheel of Life assessment, we chart their life areas, guiding them towards holistic growth. A mentor, I empower mentees to assess and enhance their emotional skills, enabling an inovative and sustainable personal growth and career transformation aswell.

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Jane Feng, PhD

Your Partner in Change Management, Leadership & Organization Effectiveness
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Here are FIVE things to consider: #1. They must have willingness to change. Otherwise, forget about it. #2. Leverage EI instrument as a mirror to reflect their strength/weakness. #3. Have a coaching session on the EI test. #4. Ask for the low hanging-fruit for change. #5. The mentee should be the owner of the change.

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Sandro Souza

Diretor de Opera??es
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Como mentor, eu ajudaria meu aluno a desenvolver sua inteligência emocional identificando áreas de dificuldade, oferecendo estratégias práticas, incentivando terapias de apoio, enfatizando o auto-cuidado e oferecendo apoio constante durante o processo de desenvolvimento emocional.

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2 Model emotional intelligence

One of the best ways to teach emotional intelligence is to demonstrate it yourself. As a mentor, you can set an example for your mentee by showing how you handle your own emotions, how you communicate with others, and how you cope with challenges. You can also share your own stories and experiences of how emotional intelligence helped you achieve your goals or overcome obstacles. By modeling emotional intelligence, you can inspire your mentee to emulate your positive behaviors and attitudes.

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Igor Victorino

Coordenador da Qualidade | Gerente da Qualidade | Mentor de Líderes | Palestrante | Treinador |+1000 Profissionais Desenvolvidos | Gest?o & Indústria | +20 anos experiência
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Algo que acho útil é a utiliza??o de historias e metáforas para internaliza??o e reflex?o do mentorado. As metáforas tem o caráter de promover uma reflex?o profunda e de dentro para fora, tornando a experiência mais duradoura e talvez ate permanente em alguns casos.

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3 Coach them on specific skills

Another way to help your mentee improve their emotional intelligence is to coach them on specific skills that they need to develop. For example, you can help your mentee improve their self-awareness by encouraging them to reflect on their feelings, thoughts, and actions and how they affect others. You can help your mentee improve their self-regulation by teaching them strategies to calm down, manage stress, and control impulses. You can help your mentee improve their motivation by helping them set realistic and meaningful goals and celebrate their achievements. You can help your mentee improve their empathy by asking them to put themselves in others' shoes and understand their perspectives and emotions. You can help your mentee improve their social skills by giving them tips on how to listen actively, express themselves clearly, collaborate effectively, and resolve conflicts.

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4 Provide ongoing support and feedback

The last way to help your mentee improve their emotional intelligence is to provide them with ongoing support and feedback. Emotional intelligence is not a fixed trait that can be learned overnight. It is a dynamic and evolving skill that requires constant practice and refinement. As a mentor, you can support your mentee by checking in regularly, acknowledging their progress, and addressing their challenges. You can also give them feedback by praising their strengths, pointing out their mistakes, and suggesting ways to improve. You can also encourage your mentee to seek feedback from others, such as peers, managers, or clients, and use it to grow and learn.

Emotional intelligence is a vital skill for any professional and leader. As a mentor, you can help your mentee develop their emotional intelligence by assessing their strengths and weaknesses, modeling emotional intelligence, coaching them on specific skills, and providing ongoing support and feedback. By doing so, you can help your mentee achieve their potential and enhance their career and personal success.

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Igor Victorino

Coordenador da Qualidade | Gerente da Qualidade | Mentor de Líderes | Palestrante | Treinador |+1000 Profissionais Desenvolvidos | Gest?o & Indústria | +20 anos experiência
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Este acompanhamento se faz extremamente importante, e ajuda o mentorado a se manter no foco e sabendo que você está com ele nos momentos em que pensa em desistir.

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5 Here’s what else to consider

This is a space to share examples, stories, or insights that don’t fit into any of the previous sections. What else would you like to add?

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Jesse McCullough

Founder @ Keystone Pharmacy Insights | PharmD
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Only mentor people in areas of your strengths and experience. If emotional intelligence is in your wheelhouse, mentor the mentee. If emotional intelligence is outside your wheelhouse, help your mentee find a better mentor for this area. There are no one size fits all mentors in my experience. I have a handful of mentors that help me in different areas. The same would hold for the people you mentor, they likely need a battery of mentors to help them in various areas.

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Bruce Berger, PhD

President at Berger Consulting, LLC, I help health care professionals help patients manage chronic illness (motivational interviewing) and build authentic relationships, ?????????????? ??????????????
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Does your mentee know that he/she lacks EI? Does your mentee know why EI is important? I would start there and use very specific examples.

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